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Tampax FOR BOYS!

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VenusTiger · 23/10/2020 09:23

Please, someone tell me this is a hoax:

twitter.com/tramisogyny/status/1319366664496971777?s=19

I can't find anything on Google search to tell me it's fake - what's going on here? Lots in the comments section about it being a "fetish".

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Kinkybutkind · 23/10/2020 20:42

@StoneFacedCrone ~ not a fake but on a site that isn’t indexed by google, as mentioned... It’s a fetish website

StandWitch · 23/10/2020 20:47

That wasn’t made by a transwoman - it wouldn’t be aimed at ‘boys’ if it were, but ‘girls’. It’s clearly made to try to rake up anti-trans feeling. Whatever your views are on the whole debate, shit like this doesn’t help anyone.

No. It was made by a 'sissy'. You are unequivocally and undoubtedly wrong.

A website probably dating back to the late 1990s:

www.geocities.ws/ritami/docs/sissymoderna.htm

(in Italian, no images apart from this one)

Club mission

M1) define the minimum standards of a modern sissymaid

M2) to foster mutual knowledge of sissymaids and a spread of their culture of submission

M3) to be a supply market for women interested in sissymaid exploitation

M4) create and spread an Italian culture for the modern sissymaid

The sissymaid is a being by birth of male sex who (A1):

A1.1) recognizes that it is inferior in dignity to others and in particular to Women

A1.2) aims to transform and be recognized as a female being

A1.3) dedicates his life to one or more female persons through the physical and moral servitude provided to them

A1.4) has no needs or claims against other individuals

A1.5) does not possess his own body

n the case of lasting captivity the sissymaid (A3.1):

  • is constantly hairless and takes care of her hair removal with wax made by expert personnel
  • personally takes care of the hair removal of her clitoris
  • wear only women's underwear and clothing
  • has toenails and hands that are constantly groomed and painted
  • she is made up, has feminine movements and a sweet, never haughty look

Definitions

  • clitoris : it is the sexual organ of the sissymaid. Although different in appearance from that so literally called in a Woman, the sissymaid considers the penis as "her clitoris" and in this sense it names it
  • mood: it is the liquid emitted by the sissymaid. Although different in appearance from that so literally called in a Woman, the sissymaid considers the semen as "her mood" and in this sense she names it
  • milking : activity aimed at getting the mood out of the clitoris of the sissymaid without causing orgasm.

So this is a very particular 'sissy' fetish, and i found this same image on dozens of 'sissy' websites. 'Sissies' may identify as 'baby girls'.

Clearly what was a sexual fetish for men to play out in private at home may now spill over into publicly identifying as transgender.

But this has nothing whatsoever to do with people being anti-trans. People have no need to fake men's disgusting fetishes, the truth is far more horrifying.

If you look at the branding the image was edited from, 'Tampax Lites', then that seems to be a brand that was introduced in 1994:

www.nytimes.com/1994/04/21/business/media-business-advertising-tambrands-hopes-smaller-version-tampax-tampon-will.html

this was discontinued at some point, but probably this image is 20 years old.

StandWitch · 23/10/2020 20:52

Yes indeed. If you look further down the thread, someone has been investigating.

you're awfully trusting of people with anime profile pictures.

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 23/10/2020 21:00

Yes, this is a fetish. AGP is particularly unpleasant, especially the variety that gets its kicks from making women uncomfortable. You should have a read around what was happening a short while ago with the review pages of M&S's lingerie section. Quite why that particular store should have chosen to facilitate this behaviour even when challenged (the story made the national news) is a question several members of FWR have written to ask them. Needless to say they only receive a flannelling in response ...

DeliciouslyFemale · 23/10/2020 21:04

@MarieIVanArkleStinks

Yes, this is a fetish. AGP is particularly unpleasant, especially the variety that gets its kicks from making women uncomfortable. You should have a read around what was happening a short while ago with the review pages of M&S's lingerie section. Quite why that particular store should have chosen to facilitate this behaviour even when challenged (the story made the national news) is a question several members of FWR have written to ask them. Needless to say they only receive a flannelling in response ...
They have totally capitulated to the demands of the male bodied people. They can use whichever changing room they feel comfortable in. The female customers were never consulted before they made the changing rooms unisex. And no, they don’t all have floor to dealing doors and walls.
DeliciouslyFemale · 23/10/2020 21:04

dealing = ceiling

ChardonnaysPetDragon · 23/10/2020 21:21

Well, if the packaging is blue and they are cologne scented then I suppose it's fine.

Grin
Teddybear27 · 23/10/2020 21:23

@romeolovedjulliet
I saw Germaine Greer saying the same type of thing on a programme recently...

ulanbatorismynextstop · 23/10/2020 21:25

This cheered me up

My sister works in A and E and says there is nothing that some bloke somewhere would feel the need to shove up his arse.

😂😂😂😂

I honestly can't think of a single woman who would want to stick anything up their arse. We're too busy and it sounds very unpleasant!

TooTrueToBeGood · 23/10/2020 21:34

@romeolovedjulliet

i'm prepared to be flamed but i often wonder how much of men wanting to be women [not to the level of surgery that's a total and different subject] are using these excuses for fetish reasons, wanting to invade what should be women safe spaces, i.e loos and changing rooms. it comes acrossthat they are more getting off on the fact that many women are angry that some men still regard themselves superior to women. a lot of them just come across as perverts, used sanitary towels ? wtaf ?
I'd hazard a guess at around 90%. Look at the agenda. If a man wants to wear a skirt and call himself Shirley the majority of people in this day and age would struggle to give a shit. That's not enough though. They need to force their will on women. They need to encroach on what few privileges women have.They need to feel they have won a victory over women. That's the real motivation. That's why no matter what concessions they win they will always want something more. It's not about letting them be who they want to be, it's about them not letting women be who they are. Yet people are too busy confusing male trans activism with the battles for the rights of legitimate minorities they can't see the wood for the trees.
TheChampagneGalop · 23/10/2020 21:52

StandWitch Sissy and syssy hypno are popular fetishes now. Cult expert Steven Hassan commented on the brainwashing aspect of it. twitter.com/CultExpert/status/1279890717507227648
Some men get so into hypno porn that they convince themselves to identify as trans.

Duemarch2021 · 23/10/2020 22:17

I can imagine that this isn't a hoax.... it mentions a 'male vagina' so im assuming this is for transgender females who have not had surgery but feel uncomfortable purchasing female products and using them during their period.. so they have made 'male' version to make them feel better?? Confused

TheChampagneGalop · 23/10/2020 22:25

No it's a sissy fetish pic from a fetish site.

ThunderSkies · 23/10/2020 22:26

@Duemarch2021

I can imagine that this isn't a hoax.... it mentions a 'male vagina' so im assuming this is for transgender females who have not had surgery but feel uncomfortable purchasing female products and using them during their period.. so they have made 'male' version to make them feel better?? Confused
Why don’t you try reading it?
Butterer · 23/10/2020 22:27

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romeolovedjulliet · 23/10/2020 22:28

are there any neuro typical men out there any more who respect women and treat them like human beings who happen to be the opposite sex [apart from dh that is] ?

Duemarch2021 · 23/10/2020 22:31

Oh hahaa.. i am very naive then

Duemarch2021 · 23/10/2020 22:32

I didnt look at the pic properly... ahhh strange!

Melroses · 23/10/2020 22:46

Very. Indeed.

The lengths some people go to.

Hmm
ShebaShimmyShake · 23/10/2020 22:54

@romeolovedjulliet

are there any neuro typical men out there any more who respect women and treat them like human beings who happen to be the opposite sex [apart from dh that is] ?
Yes. Of course.
Arthersleep · 23/10/2020 23:00

It could be deliberate to wind up women. Or people could be poking fun at themselves. Or just fake to stir up hatred against the trans community. Or it could be genuine fetishism. It's clearly not genuine trans though as a trans male to female wouldn't want to stick it up their arse any more than a woman would. Either way though, if it is genuine fetishism, then each to their own. My feeling is that it's a joke though.

GoldfishParade · 23/10/2020 23:00

This popped up on my FB feed. It's getting ridiculous now.

Butterer · 23/10/2020 23:01

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Thewithesarehere · 23/10/2020 23:04

@LavaCake

Presumably they’re for trans men? Trans men still sometimes have periods depending on whether they have had surgery or take hormones etc. A few have talked about the stigma of using tampons etc as a trans man and how it triggers their body dysmorphia.

Kenny Ethan Jones has spoken pretty eloquently about this and his experiences as a trans man generally, it’s worth seeing what he says about it.

Can you explain where this bleeding happens from?
theblackparade · 23/10/2020 23:05

You all look ridiculous for believing that this is actually a real thing. No wonder MN has such a bad reputation for being full of backwards bigots.

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