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to think that peeing gallons of blood & having a fever is an emergency?

226 replies

Trying2Heal · 19/10/2020 11:38

I've a history of urinary tract infections progressing to kidney infections since I was about 3 years old. 18 years ago I was diagnosed with bladder cancer, but following treatment it has been in remission since then.

After an extremely stressful life experience I had what I thought was yet another urinary tract infection but yesterday it progressed to blood literally pouring out of me whenever I urinate, and I'm having to urinate at least once every 20 minutes. During the night I counted the number of times I had to get up to pee it was 21 times. And each time I peed blood my urine is quite intense red, and it is EXCRUCIATINGLY painful. I am shivering and sweating. I called 111 and they told me a "local service" would call me back. The local service was this awful rude woman who told me to just drink lots of water and to try to get a GP appointment later this year and just kept asking me if I have friends and a support system. She was so rude and eventually hung up on me.

The last time I had these symptoms I ended up with a serious kidney infection and hospitalised for several days. Clearly I need antibiotics.
Am I to just sit here getting progressively more ill?

OP posts:
Holothane · 19/10/2020 15:11

A and e no question hugs lots of them.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/10/2020 15:14

I hope you are getting treatment at A and E Flowers

Lovemusic33 · 19/10/2020 15:19

OP, I agree with other, go to A&E.

I had a bad UTI like this several years ago and GP saw me straight away so I could start antibiotics ASAP, within 24 hours the bleeding had stopped and after a few days I was fine. The pain was awful, like peeing razor blades so you have my sympathy.

GP’s are a nightmare at the moment, I had to wait 4 weeks for a phone appointment last month for something that would normally be considered an emergency, I ended up going to A&E because I was so unwell.

StopGo · 19/10/2020 15:37

@Trying2Heal I hope you are on way/at A&E. Stand firm and make a fuss, do what you have to do to be seen.

It was a similar story to yours that cost my DH his life in May. The hospital said 'lessons had been learnt'. Well nobody seems to have learnt if anything things are getting worse.

Look after yourself and get well soon Flowers

Scweltish · 19/10/2020 15:41

I hope you went to a and e!!

Marshmallow91 · 19/10/2020 15:45

Wishing you well and a speedy recovery OP Flowers

Terrace58 · 19/10/2020 15:48

My father just got out of the hospital. He had to be admitted because a uti spread
To his lungs. Go to a&e.

Ireolu · 19/10/2020 15:48

With your past hx of bladder cancer please make sure you are referred back to urology or at least a scan of your bladder. Hope you feel better.

ifonly4 · 19/10/2020 15:53

Even if there's a long wait, you really need to go to A&E. You can't leave it. You've done the right thing and tried to speak to a doctor, but as that hasn't helped, you need to speak to/see someone that will.

Shortfeet · 19/10/2020 16:13

Hope you’re ok

Silvercatowner · 19/10/2020 16:15

Blimey... I had a kidney infection a couple of months ago and the advice was A&E immediately. I was there and on an IV within the hour.

jess3817 · 19/10/2020 16:15

I hope your ok op and are being seen.

Coldwinterahead1 · 19/10/2020 16:19

Hope you are ok Thanks

SunshineCake · 19/10/2020 16:34

I hope you are being cared for @Trying2Heal.

Cruachan31 · 19/10/2020 16:37

Go to A&E, I have found they are actually much quieter than normal at the moment. A UTI can be very serious, and can lead to septicaemia, which is a medical emergency! My dh nearly died after being admitted to hospital with one and he needed IV antibiotics. Do NOT take any chances and do not wait for your GP call, just go.

Elderflower14 · 19/10/2020 16:47

I'm extremely unimpressed with our local doctors. Not nearly as unwell as you OP but I've been peeing loads so rang up this morning.. Asked for a call back from the doctor.... Had to answer lots of questions from the receptionist... An hour later the phone rang.. It was the dispensary... "We are ringing about your urine infection." "Oh do I have one because I haven't spoken to the doctor?"
Apparently they just give antibiotics now and don't do a urine test... I then asked what antibiotics I was being given... She told me the name and I said was that penicillin as I was allergic to all other antibiotics? ... She rang back ten minutes later to say he'd put me some amoxicillin out... I asked if I had been originally prescribed ones I was allergic to and I had!!! 😡
Luckily a friend was working next door to the surgery and she picked them up so I didn't have to go down there or I would have had words!!

TokyoSushi · 19/10/2020 17:07

Hope you're getting treatment OP, sounds awful.

ifiwasascent · 19/10/2020 17:15

Don't know why you wouldn't go to Ane it's obviously an emergency

TheHobbitMum · 19/10/2020 17:17

I hope you're in A&E being treated OP Flowers

MushyMushi · 19/10/2020 17:18

Glad you went to hospital OP, that sounds horrendous!

MushMonster · 19/10/2020 17:20

Of course it is an emergency. Go to A&E. There is a wait if you are there for anything that can wait (high fever and shivering for example), but you will be straight in for more serious things. They will ask you what is the matter at reception. Make sure you let them know you have cancer and you had kidney infections before.

Blueberries0112 · 19/10/2020 17:22

This sound very serious!

Get help

MushMonster · 19/10/2020 17:24

OP I bet you she had a look to your medical history and felt like shit that she treated so.
I hope you are in hospital now!

HoneysuckIejasmine · 19/10/2020 17:25

Oh gosh. I'm currently waiting for a call back from gp for the same symptoms (except less severe bleeding and pain). I hope you're being treated now.

Lollyneenah · 19/10/2020 17:26

A haemorrhage in any capacity is a 999 job. What a Pillock this woman was, probably a bit green I think.
Hope you're getting looked after now OP