to want sex but can't be bothered to do it?

[MysteryPerson]

I rarely want sex as I suffer depression (find it hard to get motivated about anything) but really could do it with my DH tonight but I really can't be bothered- don't know if it is because I am a lazy cow or because of my depression.

DH is up for it anytime so AIBU?

"pull the nighty down when you've finished dear"

"or help yourself just don't expect company"

Humour in the bedroom often works.

Agree sex not the be all and end all. But I think, for me and DH, it is important, particularly to him
and so i want to do it as it makes him happy. IT makes him grumpy and short tempereed if he hasn;t had sex in a while, even though he denies the link like mad, I just KNOW!

Me too olala!

DH gets SO ratty & snappy & it's obvious to me anyway why!!

doesn't make it any easier to help though,knowing I should for the sake of marital harmony.

dont have time to read all of the threads, not sure if the mystery peep is entirely serious, apologies if you are but i was lol at the lap dancing thing, cash only

My PND has definately affected my sex drive, that and the fact i an knackered and so is DP - i lose count of the times i send him saucy texts and he is on a promise, then we fall asleep on the sofa and thats it.

I have to say, i feel so much happier when we are having sex, we used to be at least a once/twice a day couple (even after 15 years) but since DD born (2.2) we are lucky to manage once a week. The fact she is still in our room doesnt help but can't do anything about that at the moment. I just feel all warm and gooey inside (no not down there, my god you have filthy minds!) for the day when we have had a good session.

I know he will be having a stressy day today, maybe i should surprise him with a BJ tonight

oh and hi talulasmum, good to see you back - how was your holiday

Happy DH this morning. Worth making an appointment as he bothered to put on aftershave (I love the smell) Still working on spending plan. If I look good, I'm more in the mood, we have sex he's happy I can spend a little more time on myself to look good which will mean.....full circle.