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Royal Mail Post Woman does round with fag hanging out of her mouth

80 replies

TapingTheTop40 · 28/09/2020 13:55

I often see the same Royal Mail post woman delivering Mail door to door with a cigarette hanging out of her mouth.

I think it’s really odd, it doesn’t look professional and surely she shouldn’t be allowed to.
Now, don’t worry, I don’t plan on complaining.
But after having the conversation about it to my DH (an ex-smoker) he thinks it’s perfectly acceptable and is doing no harm.

So I wondered. Is it just me that thinks it’s weird? I am prepared to be told yes.

I’ll add, I also notice when, say, I go to somewhere like Matalan or Dunelm and there are employees smoking outside the front door in uniform. And I think this is not right also.

YABU- who cares if she smokes while delivering people’s mail.

YANBU- that’s not right

OP posts:
TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 28/09/2020 14:04

It doesn't matter to me but I recall it being said that keeping a cigarette 'permanently' in one's mouth is very, very bad for one's health.
I suppose one way or another the issue with extinguish itself...

vodkaredbullgirl · 28/09/2020 14:06

Is it postie bashing week

Feellikedancingyeah · 28/09/2020 14:06

Doesn't matter. So many more important things at the moment

googlilocks · 28/09/2020 14:07

As long as she does not inadvertently set the letters on fire.

On a different note, I once saw a milkman doing his rounds with a cigarette permanently in his mouth.

Readytogogogo · 28/09/2020 14:09

Terrible for her health. But I really don't understand why you would care/ post about it?

ChaChaCha2012 · 28/09/2020 14:10

Can't get worked up about this. They're doing no harm to anyone.

You certainly have no right to object to a staff member smoking on their break.

Get over yourself.

GoldfishParade · 28/09/2020 14:10

It sounds like you need to get a job

AwaAnBileYerHeid · 28/09/2020 14:12

With all due respect, unless she is entering your house with said fag, lit, then it isn't any of your business.

inappropriateraspberry · 28/09/2020 14:16

I think it is wrong. They are on paid time, doing a professional service. I would complain, I don't fancy having ash knocked all over my letters and parcels.

katy1213 · 28/09/2020 14:17

It does look sloppy. But I always long to tell scruffy (and quite senior) librarian in my local branch to take the chewing gum out of his mouth.

BadTattoosAndSmellLikeBooze · 28/09/2020 14:18

I would imagine that they’re not supposed to smoke whilst on duty but I have no idea. I think she’s be much better to stop for a few minutes, have a cigarette and carry on though.

I wouldn’t complain either but I would notice.

luckystarmaking · 28/09/2020 14:19

Shes outside ffs. What's the point in this thread?

TheWernethWife · 28/09/2020 14:20

Often see our postie stopping to light up a fag on his rounds. He is out 6 days a week in all sorts of weather. Couldn't give toss about it.

NC4Now · 28/09/2020 14:20

I don’t think it looks professional but it wouldn’t bother me

inappropriateraspberry · 28/09/2020 14:21

@luckystarmaking

Shes outside ffs. What's the point in this thread?
But she's not on a break. Would you be happy the people collecting trolleys outside the supermarket were smoking, or the teachers in the playground at break time?
vodkaredbullgirl · 28/09/2020 14:21

Think its more of a smoking post, postie smoking, staff smoking outside shop in thier uniform.

TheQueef · 28/09/2020 14:21

Dirty bitch Angry getting all her nicotine fingers on your farmfoods leaflet.

But seriously, YABU and a nosey fucker Smile

GoldfishParade · 28/09/2020 14:22

Oh noes! An evil cigarette woman! /breaks down

DownThePlath · 28/09/2020 14:22

Oh, the horror!

DumplingsAndStew · 28/09/2020 14:24

As a smoker, I don't think YABU. I would hope she shouldn't be smoking whilst working.

user1487194234 · 28/09/2020 14:29

And ..,,?
Is there a point to this story

1forAll74 · 28/09/2020 14:31

Leave the postie lady be, her Benson and Hedges keep her going,and keep her calm, maybe they are spliffs !

PersonaNonGarter · 28/09/2020 14:32

Covid has unleashed sticky beaks and sneaks and social police. It’s so ominous.

Pesimistic · 28/09/2020 14:34

I agree it does ti look professional as she should probably wait untill she is on a break or something but it's not hurting anyone, as she is out doors by her self. I'd find it a bit odd but wouldnt complain about it.

Bookriddle · 28/09/2020 14:36

Im a smoker, if i was working in a job kile this, i would be smoking too to be honest