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To miss E?

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CroutonCrab · 27/09/2020 21:01

Might be all the stress in the world at the moment but it’s made me think about what I’d give for a couple of doves and the clammy hands that come with them. Don’t think my heart could take it now Sad

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KenDodd · 29/09/2020 20:20

There is another side to it all though - that I don't think some people are really acknowledging. It is gang related and causing huge problems (county lines?) in areas and I do not think it is a benign effect just because those on here who took it had a great time.

And yet another side. The massive reduction in football violence attributed to the use of ecstasy and even playing a part in bringing peace to NI. These are real world benefits beyond just young people having a great night out. I'm not denying that there is a very real dark side but it's not the only side.

DioneTheDiabolist · 29/09/2020 20:20

The thread has descended into a childish boastto.seewho took the most drugs and when.

No it hasn't @KaptainKaveman. But dont let that stop you from coming on like a wee granny Moosh and berating middle aged women for stuff they did 20 odd years ago.🤣

malificent7 · 29/09/2020 20:22

Kind of wish i tried them now instead of that bad trip I had on mushrioms! Boize is my drug but I think i would have had a better time on E.

KenDodd · 29/09/2020 20:23

The thread has descended into a childish boast to.see who took the most drugs and when

I bet I'd win Grin

malificent7 · 29/09/2020 20:24

I was a massive raver but only did e once. Still love dance music.

TomNookTheHustler · 29/09/2020 20:27

YANBU but people are weirdly puritanical on here Grin

unmarkedbythat · 29/09/2020 20:49

@KaptainKaveman

If it is ' boring' to link drug use to the drug trade, with its legacy of murder and destruction of lives, then I'm happy to be considered so. This thread is honestly pathetic; like a bunch of adolescent fools attempting to outboard each other.
If you care so much, why support an approach that causes more harm? The drug trade is foul because it is illegal. Make it like the alcohol trade. Take it out of the hands of cartels and warlords and traffickers and murderers and gangsters. Do far less harm. The rank hypocrisy of claiming to disapprove due to the harm drugs do when there is a wealth of evidence to show that prohibition causes most of that harm makes me sick. No one here is bragging, no one thinks using drugs made them cooler than anyone else. People were reminiscing. It was nice. Then the usual bullshit started- people without the ability to recognise that what experts have been saying for years is true: prohibition is the problem and if you support that you need to own your support of its consequences.
eucalyptuss · 29/09/2020 21:31

@KaptainKaveman

If it is ' boring' to link drug use to the drug trade, with its legacy of murder and destruction of lives, then I'm happy to be considered so. This thread is honestly pathetic; like a bunch of adolescent fools attempting to outboard each other.
Criminalisation is probably to blame for most of that though to be honest
Whatnext2018 · 29/09/2020 21:42

@MiniMum97 Totally agree, wish I’d done more of it and if I could go back I would. Those years seemed to go so quickly 🥺

Emeraldshamrock · 29/09/2020 21:44

@KenDodd 🤣

oakleaffy · 29/09/2020 21:53

The thread has descended into a childish boast to.see who took the most drugs and when

I bet I'd win 😀- Quote

@KenDodd

Ooh you shameful bragger !
😂😂😂

ChelseeDagger · 29/09/2020 21:58

Some proper dickheads on this thread.

Look, if you have no recollection of these times then kindly move along.

Stop shitting on our (meet her at the love) parade.

candlles · 29/09/2020 21:59

@ChelseeDagger

Some proper dickheads on this thread.

Look, if you have no recollection of these times then kindly move along.

Stop shitting on our (meet her at the love) parade.

Omg that song. We were at a friends house with mdma and the music person had forgotten all the music so we had that one song on repeat for about 8 hours.

Excellent night still GrinGrinGrin

Kismet1000 · 29/09/2020 22:12

Totally with you! Been feeling very bored of late and thinking that I'm going through a mid life crisis!

HeadLikeAFuckinOrange · 29/09/2020 22:16

"Omg that song. We were at a friends house with mdma and the music person had forgotten all the music so we had that one song on repeat for about 8 hours.*

Did anyone else here make it to the Leeds LoveParade?!
20 years ago now, I can't believe it...

HeadLikeAFuckinOrange · 29/09/2020 22:17

bold fail

ChelseeDagger · 29/09/2020 22:29

Yeah, me. I did.

Although sophie ellis bextor and spiller was the anthem of the train from lime.st. 'if this aint love'

ChelseeDagger · 29/09/2020 22:33

Also if anyone went to Garlands from '99 to 2002 I was the 'porcelain doll' with the curly hair.

So nice to reminisce with you all

MrsJBaptiste · 29/09/2020 22:36

@HeadLikeAFuckinOrange Ah, that was a fantastic weekend...

Dancing at the Trade stage while all my friends went off for something a bit less hard! 😁

We then went up to Newcastle the following year (?) and it was bloody cancelled 😒 Still saw Judge Jules though so it wasn't too bad.

Furries · 29/09/2020 23:26

To those on hear who are very “anti” I do understand in a way - we have “drugs are bad” thrown down our throats a lot, and it is a subject that seems very easy to take a stance on.

But it is very easy to take your “information” from the media, movies etc. There is no doubt whatsoever that heroin/crack etc etc are horrific paths to go down. But this thread has been about E - which in my experience is a different kettle of fish (and yes, I know that just because I’m going on my own experience and circle of friends, it’s not definitive). E has a very different effect compared to what I call the “horror” drugs.

I started raving very early 90’s. The scene, compared to now, was SO different. Most of us stopped early 00’s roughly - the main reason being that the quality of it had gone really downhill. Pills had become MUCH cheaper, but it was really obvious that the product wasn’t as good. Those that are “anti” can you picture a “druggie” that turns down a hit due to quality?

There are some drugs that should be blasted off the face of the earth. But I completely agree with those posting to say that MDMA, produced in the right circumstances, with tax being paid and all precautions in place, should not be dismissed as an idea. The hidden world behind this is truly vile for those “working” in it. Taking some of that power away from them could maybe benefit those “working” for them, but would definitely benefit today’s youth.

Although I have nostalgia for those days, there is no way I’d do anything again. Mainly due to my health (definitely not related!), but other main reason due to the decline in quality from nearly 30 years ago. I don’t have kids, but if I did, I would NOT be happy thinking they might be doin* it. Not because I am a hypocrite, but again down to quality. If there was a legislated way of buying a known product, and they wanted to try, then I’d hope that I could be open and understanding with them.

I think there was quite a specific point in time, for a lot on here reminiscing, where it was almost a “perfect storm”. Product quality, new music, no social media, no judgement on what you were wearing in a muddy field or sweaty London club! All of those aspects are gone now, so can really see why the “anti” posters don’t understand - nor do I expect them to. They weren’t there, how could they? But I do think a lot of people need to challenge their thinking slightly - not all drug taking equals scenes out of Trainspotting and a huge burden could be reduced by legislation of some drugs - leaving resources to focus on the truly vile ones (and the whole exploitation of those involved).

Anyway! For those that stuck through reading this - am around to offer a head massage whenever you need a quick break 😂

Furries · 29/09/2020 23:29

Am not going to highlight/correct my mistakes - just wish there was a blooming “edit” facility!

DonnaQuixotedelaManchester · 29/09/2020 23:43

For the Dave Haslam fans

To miss E?
Whatnext2018 · 30/09/2020 00:02

@Furries ‘The perfect storm’ yes, perfectly described! Also was done with it by the early 2000/2001

And head massages 🤷🏻‍♀️👏

Whatnext2018 · 30/09/2020 00:03

Not done with it..but a lot of the magic had disappeared sadly by then.

Emeraldshamrock · 30/09/2020 00:05

I can picture all the eyeballs like flying saucers full of love. I knew so many people then hours spent in the bathrooms.
I remember telling a sweet young guy no passion involved "Sorry I keep staring at you but I think I saw you on a bus last year" Hmm then we danced. Madness.

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