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To tell all the black mumsnetters we now have our own forum

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Marg33t · 16/09/2020 13:40

Thanks to the fab PatricksRum for fighting against racism we've got our own board here

Look for black mumsnetters 👍🏿

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Quaagars · 16/09/2020 18:24

@StormzyInaDCup

Why do we need our own white board?
The main boards are white by default, you wouldn't get much specifically tailored advice on black issues, just like Scotsnet.
Just what exactly is it that everyone is so loudly against black people being able to talk freely amongst themselves like others do, Craicsnte/Scotsnet etc - so why can't they have a voice too?
The screenshot of yours too - I've been on the threads, it's absolutely rubbish to say that no white people allowed at all.
If that's how people are interpreting it, maybe think about why?
It was said no making it all about me me me, shouting down, minimising etc

mamanrose · 16/09/2020 18:25

@OnceUponAThimble

How are white people the oppressor on an anonymous forum where colour is not known?
Is there a reason why you keep commenting on threads to do with black people and arguing with them?
OnceUponAThimble · 16/09/2020 18:25

They are boys.

FUTeams · 16/09/2020 18:26

Excellent news. That's really cheered me up.

GoGadgetGo · 16/09/2020 18:27

I think I might ask for a working class forum. That be nice so we can talk about our issues.
Middle classes get your own forum. Yes there may be a lot of repetition and similarities but so what. Least this will be our space so we can discuss what is relevevant to us. You can pop in if you want and see how we differ and learn about us.

Working class forum members- let's do this!!!!
What do you mean, no and this is a rubbish idea?
REALLY? You think? * cough

Mollymarvelous70 · 16/09/2020 18:27

Nothing wrong with wanting a space to talk about issues specifically facing black women if enough people want to use it .

I will be coming over to read up on on race issues and get some insight into what black women think about things where they are disproportionately affected. I live in a very white area with lots of retirees which isn’t eye opening on issues of the day !

OnceUponAThimble · 16/09/2020 18:27

Is there a reason why you keep commenting on threads to do with black people and arguing with them?
Yes, there is. 1. My dc are half black and 2. I hate segregation and don't want them to see that.

StormzyInaDCup · 16/09/2020 18:28

@Havaiana sorry you're having trouble reading. Your posts are nasty BTW. Maybe that person writing like an American, is actually American. Shock, horror!

It shows what was being discussed and what was being asked for the group. It's a joke and I've reported the making of the group to mn.

Quaagars · 16/09/2020 18:28

They are boys

Well, that was a dodge and a half and an ignore of the point the poster was making.

myrtleWilson · 16/09/2020 18:29

Crack on @GoGadgetGo - you and @xenia could be in polar competition with each other for working class board and super high income board...

Lemonyfuckit · 16/09/2020 18:29

I'm not talking specifically about on an anonymous forum, I'm talking about in life. In general, throughout history, in context, etc. etc. Do I really need to spell it out? Racism doesn't exist in a vacuum, it exists within a power structure. White people, in the west at least, have historically held the power when it comes to racial divides, owing to centuries of Eurocentric and western beliefs and structures which continue to give privilege to white people and centre whiteness.

lockeddownandcrazy · 16/09/2020 18:30

So its allowed to have a forum for black mumsnetters - would it be allowed to have a white mumsnetters one.......probably not, that would be seen as rascist

Davros · 16/09/2020 18:30

Congratulations. I really hope you enjoy your new board and find it useful. Thanks

StormzyInaDCup · 16/09/2020 18:30

@onceuponathimble you're taking all this with grace. I wouldn't be so gracious if someone was telling me where I could post or having a little corner of mn that my children to post in (you were spot on there).

myrtleWilson · 16/09/2020 18:31

@StormzyInaDCup - you've reported the making of a group to MN? The same MN who have agreed with the need for the group as per their opening statement on the sub forum?

SionnachRua · 16/09/2020 18:31

If @Xenia had a super high income board I'd read it tbf. I'd say it'd be mad entertaining, though possibly unintentionally so.

MN, I petition for a Xenia board Grin

GoGadgetGo · 16/09/2020 18:31

@myrtleWilson
Thanks. I've got ideas for 5000 new forum boards since I started typing 5 mins ago. I think I will be putting a request in shortly. fingers crossed.

Quaagars · 16/09/2020 18:31

So its allowed to have a forum for black mumsnetters - would it be allowed to have a white mumsnetters one.......probably not, that would be seen as rascist

Grin

Jesus, it's like whack a mole haha
Have you actually RTFT?!

Lemonyfuckit · 16/09/2020 18:32

That was in response to OnceUponAThimble btw

FreekStar · 16/09/2020 18:32

It's not really a step forward is it?

Havaiana · 16/09/2020 18:32

[quote StormzyInaDCup]@Havaiana sorry you're having trouble reading. Your posts are nasty BTW. Maybe that person writing like an American, is actually American. Shock, horror!

It shows what was being discussed and what was being asked for the group. It's a joke and I've reported the making of the group to mn.[/quote]
@StormzyInaDCup what was nasty about my posts? No, that screenshots shows what a racist says was being asked for. Big difference.

@OnceUponAThimble are you American as Stormzy suggests?

This thread just proves we need a space space.

GoatWardrobe · 16/09/2020 18:32

Glad this happened. Like others on the thread, I was appalled at the slew of dimwit racism on threads discussing something that really isn't controversial. And kudos to @PatricksRum and others for grace under pressure.

IhateBoswell · 16/09/2020 18:32

@Quaagars

So its allowed to have a forum for black mumsnetters - would it be allowed to have a white mumsnetters one.......probably not, that would be seen as rascist Grin

Jesus, it's like whack a mole haha
Have you actually RTFT?!

Lather, rinse, repeat...
RozHuntleysStump · 16/09/2020 18:32

I think it’s divisive and a backwards step but whatever...

Quaagars · 16/09/2020 18:33

This thread just proves we need a space space

It really does, highlights it beautifully Sad Flowers

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