@ MsWonderful
I see you no differently than the religious zealot door knockers who come round on a Sunday morning at 8am and insist on trying to discuss why I should believe in God. 
Do I go round to their houses at 2am, with a bottle of wine and try to convince them to convert to my life choices ?? Nope, I don't 
Your opinion is just that, yours, and I'm simply not interested in being subjected to your sanctimonious preaching, on any subject. 
I'll offer advice if it's asked for, and perhaps you'd get different results if that's what you'd done.................instead of being all ''you all have to listen to my opinions, because you're all so ignorant and wrong.............