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AIBU?

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To not let people park across the drive that I don’t use?

213 replies

Blanketyblanket · 17/08/2020 18:48

My house has a drive that runs next to the side of the house. For some reason the previous owners of the house built a conservatory across half the drive so it is almost impossible to actually get a car onto the drive. I’ve applied for planning permission to widen the driveway as it would involve knocking down part of the garden wall which is over 6foot. Massive backlog with PP at the moment in the area due to CV so not sure when it will actually happen.

The town I live in is very touristy. Parking is a nightmare every summer but this year has been particularly bad due to fewer people going abroad. As a result I’ve often not been able to find anywhere to parks I for the past few weeks I’ve been parking in front of the gap for my driveway. There’s no pavement or dropped kerb, it’s just an opening in the wall. My house is the only one on my side of the street. On the other side are about 6 houses, all with drives, so everyone parks on the side of the street that my house is on.

I come out today to find I can’t actually physically leave my house via my door as there is a car completely across the entrance to my drive. I hadn’t parked there as I only park there when I can’t find anywhere else. I can leave my house via the side door but it’s 20 steps down to the gate at the bottom of the garden, it’s a pain in the arse and very narrow and very often that gate is blocked by a car too. That’s not normally an issue as I don’t normally leave that way.

I put a note on the car parked across the drive saying ‘please don’t park here, access required’. Came back this afternoon to find the car still there and a neighbour from down the road came out to shout at me that I had upset his guests, where did I expect them to park, I was being really selfish in thinking that I had my own personal parking space when it’s a public highway. Luckily another neighbour came out and told angry neighbour that it was just temporary etc as angry neighbour wouldn’t let me get a word in.

So AIBU? I know it’s a public road but I’d never park across someone’s drive. The drives on my road generally only for one car so a lot of houses then park their other car across the dropped kerb. Bit different in my case I guess as I have no dropped kerb and no car on the actual drive. I very occasionally park my car on the drive but I never would at this time of year as if someone even slightly overhangs my drive I’ve got no chance of getting out again.

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BananaSpanner · 17/08/2020 18:52

If there is no dropped kerb then it’s fair game although I personally wouldn’t park across someone’s drive even if they hadn’t dropped the kerb.

However if the car is parked in such a manner that it is preventing you from walking off your drive, that is bang out of order.

pinkgin85 · 17/08/2020 18:53

I'm not sure but based on what I can understand If there's no dropped kerb then anyone can park there assuming no yellow lines or other restrictions.

Darkestseasonofall · 17/08/2020 18:53

I don't think you can not "let" them park there, if you've no drop kerb and no markings then it's a free for all isn't it?
Most decent people would never park across a driveway, but I don't think you've a leg to stand on legally I'm afraid.

Shesapunkpunk · 17/08/2020 18:53

How is it a drive if there is no dropped kerb? I would think in the case of there not being a dropped kerb that your neighbour is right.

TheMobileSiteMadeMeSignup · 17/08/2020 18:54

I'd chase up the planning permission and look at getting a dropped kerb.

myusernamewastakenbyme · 17/08/2020 18:55

Im confused...does the parking space belong to you?

WiddlinDiddlin · 17/08/2020 18:55

We need a diagram, MN law I am afraid...

It is not legal to block someone in - its ok to block them out... however your neighbours are standing on no legs whatsoever as its not legal to park across a dropped kerb even if it was they who paid for the kerb to be dropped, to access their own drive way. So all those who are parking one car on their drive and blocking themselves in parking across the dropped kerb are breaking the law.

Floralnomad · 17/08/2020 18:57

If there is no dropped kerb then there is no drive so on that basis YABU

Royalbloo · 17/08/2020 18:57

I'd rent it out

Ratbagcatbag · 17/08/2020 19:00

Sorry. If there's no dropped kerb then it's not a driveway and people can park there.

I had the same. Driveway gates but a massive kerb in front. I've paid to have the kerb dropped and I've taken out the front wall. Now I have my own parking and so far no one has parked across my dropped kerb either.

Hmmph · 17/08/2020 19:03

It sounds like you don’t actually have a drive. You have a gap which is half the width of a car and no dropped kerb.

WoodenKitty · 17/08/2020 19:04

If it’s not a dropped kerb it’s not a drive and people can park there. However I’m unsure why you can’t get out. Perhaps you should do a diagram to persuade us otherwise.

lyralalala · 17/08/2020 19:04

If you have to go over the kerb then you don't have a drive, you just have a front garden with tarmac

Do you have to go up the kerb to get to your drive?

Funnyface1 · 17/08/2020 19:06

It doesn't sound like a driveway at all, just seems like you've decided it should be. Nobody should park so close to your property that you can barely get in and out though.

WiddlinDiddlin · 17/08/2020 19:08

Are folk struggling with reading comprehension?

There’s no pavement or dropped kerb, it’s just an opening in the wall

If there is no pavement, there can be no dropped kerb, and the absence of something that cannot possibly exist (the dropped kerb, in a non existant pavement) can't mean the access to the property does not exist as it clearly does!

ILoveFood87 · 17/08/2020 19:17

Think we need a picture Grin

CurtainWitcher · 17/08/2020 19:17

YABU. Public highway and not yours.

KrisAkabusi · 17/08/2020 19:20

It's not very well described, but it doesn't sound like you have a driveway. If there's no dropped curb, and there's a conservatory across half if it (?) You can't get a car on it anyway. So why shouldn't someone be able to park there?

Gizlotsmum · 17/08/2020 19:24

I voted yabu until I read there was no pavement so it is an opening straight into the road... They shouldn't have blocked. Not sure I understand how they stopped you getting out unless they park right up against the wall as there is no footpath...

Gizlotsmum · 17/08/2020 19:26

I may have been tempted to climb over the car that was blocking me in... Bet they would move then...

cologne4711 · 17/08/2020 19:27

I would never park across a driveway, dropped kerb or not. People who do that are stupid and inconsiderate.

Rosebel · 17/08/2020 19:29

It doesn't sound like it is a driveway and that means anyone can park there. I can see why it's annoying but you don't own the road.

BunniesLoveBananas · 17/08/2020 19:29

YANBU

pinkbalconyrailing · 17/08/2020 19:30

if you don't have a dropped kerb you have a paved garden, not a drive way. for that alone yabu
but obviously it's shit not being able to leave your property freely.

Palavah · 17/08/2020 19:31

We need a diagram please!