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AIBU?

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To not let people park across the drive that I don’t use?

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Blanketyblanket · 17/08/2020 18:48

My house has a drive that runs next to the side of the house. For some reason the previous owners of the house built a conservatory across half the drive so it is almost impossible to actually get a car onto the drive. I’ve applied for planning permission to widen the driveway as it would involve knocking down part of the garden wall which is over 6foot. Massive backlog with PP at the moment in the area due to CV so not sure when it will actually happen.

The town I live in is very touristy. Parking is a nightmare every summer but this year has been particularly bad due to fewer people going abroad. As a result I’ve often not been able to find anywhere to parks I for the past few weeks I’ve been parking in front of the gap for my driveway. There’s no pavement or dropped kerb, it’s just an opening in the wall. My house is the only one on my side of the street. On the other side are about 6 houses, all with drives, so everyone parks on the side of the street that my house is on.

I come out today to find I can’t actually physically leave my house via my door as there is a car completely across the entrance to my drive. I hadn’t parked there as I only park there when I can’t find anywhere else. I can leave my house via the side door but it’s 20 steps down to the gate at the bottom of the garden, it’s a pain in the arse and very narrow and very often that gate is blocked by a car too. That’s not normally an issue as I don’t normally leave that way.

I put a note on the car parked across the drive saying ‘please don’t park here, access required’. Came back this afternoon to find the car still there and a neighbour from down the road came out to shout at me that I had upset his guests, where did I expect them to park, I was being really selfish in thinking that I had my own personal parking space when it’s a public highway. Luckily another neighbour came out and told angry neighbour that it was just temporary etc as angry neighbour wouldn’t let me get a word in.

So AIBU? I know it’s a public road but I’d never park across someone’s drive. The drives on my road generally only for one car so a lot of houses then park their other car across the dropped kerb. Bit different in my case I guess as I have no dropped kerb and no car on the actual drive. I very occasionally park my car on the drive but I never would at this time of year as if someone even slightly overhangs my drive I’ve got no chance of getting out again.

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Blanketyblanket · 18/08/2020 14:52

Street view again for anyone that missed the previous picture.

To not let people park across the drive that I don’t use?
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Bargebill19 · 18/08/2020 15:07

I voted yabu until I saw the picture. Please accept that I now think you are definitely not being unreasonable!
Until pp is approved - I don’t know what you can reasonably do other than put up some large signs saying access requires 24/7.
Good luck it looks really really annoying.

NoWordForFluffy · 18/08/2020 15:21

I reckon the bloke in the photo is looking at the 'conservatory' and asking himself which twat built it!

ErickBroch · 18/08/2020 15:22

I said YABU but saw the photo and it makes sense now. YANBU. I would put some large plant pots there or something

youkiddingme · 18/08/2020 15:24

Own up, which one of you sent that fella round, 'go on love, have a look I don't know which way to vote on this AIBU' Grin

Ethelfleda · 18/08/2020 15:28

@youkiddingme

Own up, which one of you sent that fella round, 'go on love, have a look I don't know which way to vote on this AIBU' Grin
Grin
Ethelfleda · 18/08/2020 15:29

OP, have you thought of marking it as the gate to the underworld and investing in a Cerberus to guard it?

Crumpetswithbutter · 18/08/2020 15:30

This thread went a bit "cancel the cheque" for a while there: "YABU if there's no dropped kerb, people can park there". Snort.

I vote a life-size cardboard cut-out of a Beefeater to guard the drive.

Rhubardandcustard · 18/08/2020 15:31

Yeah no dropped kerb I can see why some people do this - I wouldn’t but some will.

NoWordForFluffy · 18/08/2020 15:41

@Rhubardandcustard

Yeah no dropped kerb I can see why some people do this - I wouldn’t but some will.
Because they're either thick fuckers or cheeky ones.
Ughmaybenot · 18/08/2020 18:01

I’m a clown, I thought there was only one page when I posted and didn’t notice there was, in fact, 6 🤦🏼‍♀️
I take back my ‘no dropped kerb’ dimwittery, and decree that no, blocking that drive is actually really shit and def not okay.

Ughmaybenot · 18/08/2020 18:02

@youkiddingme

Own up, which one of you sent that fella round, 'go on love, have a look I don't know which way to vote on this AIBU' Grin
😂😂😂
Suzi888 · 18/08/2020 18:06

Get a dropped kerb. No one should block your drive way though (at least I wouldn’t) 🤷🏼‍♀️

PrtScn · 18/08/2020 18:14

Shame it’s on a hill. I have chained a council bin (garden waste and general rubbish) either side of my gate to stop cars blocking it. Had a few CF’ers do this so I couldn’t physically get into my house (no backdoor). I had to lock them to the railings as one time a king of CF’ers actually moved them so they could park and blocked my gate! The joys of living in a tourist area with cheapskates that park in residential areas to avoid having to pay for the car park for the day!

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 18/08/2020 18:36

*Suzi888

Get a dropped kerb. No one should block your drive way though (at least I wouldn’t) 🤷🏼‍♀️*

Yes, OP - get on dropped kerb GrinWink
Wine

NoWordForFluffy · 18/08/2020 19:09

@Suzi888

Get a dropped kerb. No one should block your drive way though (at least I wouldn’t) 🤷🏼‍♀️
I wonder if anybody else has considered this option? 🤔🤔
purplemunkey · 18/08/2020 20:17

@Suzi888

Get a dropped kerb. No one should block your drive way though (at least I wouldn’t) 🤷🏼‍♀️
Ah man... cancel the kerb
Greenkit · 18/08/2020 20:29

Get the council to put white lines across

Blanketyblanket · 18/08/2020 20:29

Fine. I’ll get a dropped kerb. Happy now?

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RHRA · 18/08/2020 20:36

The shouty neighbour is a total dickhead. Anyone parking across your drive like that needs their eyesight testing and shouldn’t be driving.

NoWordForFluffy · 18/08/2020 20:40

@Greenkit

Get the council to put white lines across
Was that said tongue-in-cheek?!
itsgettingweird · 18/08/2020 20:57

Cancel the kerb 🤣🤣

Was just checking in to see if anyone had suggested dropping the kerb as I had no better ideas all afternoon despite racking my brains Wink

itsgettingweird · 18/08/2020 20:58

@RHRA

The shouty neighbour is a total dickhead. Anyone parking across your drive like that needs their eyesight testing and shouldn’t be driving.
Unless it's to Barnard Castle

Is that the tourist area OP? (Ignores the fact you said coastal!)

Whatthebloodyell · 18/08/2020 21:49

I don’t think you should drop the herb to make it look more like a drive. I think you should make it look less like a unused drive and more like your main entrance/path to your front door. Put two potted olive trees or similar either side and a house name/number sign on the wall.

LittleMissTeacup · 18/08/2020 23:19

It’s obviously a drive, not every drive needs a dropped kerb!
Lines on the road in front of your drive? Or am I just repeating what others have said?
I’m just daydreaming about all the drives I can block since they don’t possess a dropped kerb!
And in my daydream, I have remembered that my work’s driveway is like this and straight off the road and someone parked across it meaning we all couldn’t get in Grin (would have been worse if we couldn’t get out!) and the PCSO came out and contacted the vehicle owner to move it, so I think that means it’s not ok to block even without a dropped kerb.

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