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AIBU?

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To not let people park across the drive that I don’t use?

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Blanketyblanket · 17/08/2020 18:48

My house has a drive that runs next to the side of the house. For some reason the previous owners of the house built a conservatory across half the drive so it is almost impossible to actually get a car onto the drive. I’ve applied for planning permission to widen the driveway as it would involve knocking down part of the garden wall which is over 6foot. Massive backlog with PP at the moment in the area due to CV so not sure when it will actually happen.

The town I live in is very touristy. Parking is a nightmare every summer but this year has been particularly bad due to fewer people going abroad. As a result I’ve often not been able to find anywhere to parks I for the past few weeks I’ve been parking in front of the gap for my driveway. There’s no pavement or dropped kerb, it’s just an opening in the wall. My house is the only one on my side of the street. On the other side are about 6 houses, all with drives, so everyone parks on the side of the street that my house is on.

I come out today to find I can’t actually physically leave my house via my door as there is a car completely across the entrance to my drive. I hadn’t parked there as I only park there when I can’t find anywhere else. I can leave my house via the side door but it’s 20 steps down to the gate at the bottom of the garden, it’s a pain in the arse and very narrow and very often that gate is blocked by a car too. That’s not normally an issue as I don’t normally leave that way.

I put a note on the car parked across the drive saying ‘please don’t park here, access required’. Came back this afternoon to find the car still there and a neighbour from down the road came out to shout at me that I had upset his guests, where did I expect them to park, I was being really selfish in thinking that I had my own personal parking space when it’s a public highway. Luckily another neighbour came out and told angry neighbour that it was just temporary etc as angry neighbour wouldn’t let me get a word in.

So AIBU? I know it’s a public road but I’d never park across someone’s drive. The drives on my road generally only for one car so a lot of houses then park their other car across the dropped kerb. Bit different in my case I guess as I have no dropped kerb and no car on the actual drive. I very occasionally park my car on the drive but I never would at this time of year as if someone even slightly overhangs my drive I’ve got no chance of getting out again.

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TrickyD · 19/08/2020 17:23

Sorry, blanketyblanket, I had not seen your comment.
I was replying to a poster who I assumed was ill-informed.
It must be a local thing, surely, some sort of bye-law? The council workers were touching up next door’s white line and asked if we wanted it extended past ours. Free.

Ariela · 19/08/2020 17:25

It might not be apparent that you have a front door tucked behind the conservatory.
I'd perhaps get some 'House name' or 'Number' plaques and hang one on the wall each side of the gap to make it blatantly obvious it is a house and not just a gap in a wall between properties.

Or put a big sign in the window of the conservatory that faces the road with 'House name. Access required to house and garage 24/7.'

Shemeanswell · 19/08/2020 17:31

After having seen the picture, I definitely wouldn’t park across that. Especially since you say there’s a garage at the bottom. You could have a motorbike in there.

BMW6 · 19/08/2020 17:35

@Skyla2005

I don’t get why you let your neighbour build a conservatory on your drive ? Without seeing the situation of your house And the set up there it’s impossible for anyone to answer this
This reply has me weeping, but not sure whether amused or in utter despair
Johnsonsfiat · 19/08/2020 17:38

Put a sign on your wall indicating how much space you need to turn your car out of your drive.

BigRedBoat · 19/08/2020 17:57

Reading comprehension is poor on this thread Grin. Maybe people think the conservatory blocks your drive so much that no one could park on it so they might as well park in front of it? Not that they are right to do that of course. I would either put gates up or a chain with a sign.

itsgettingweird · 19/08/2020 18:10

@Skyla2005

I don’t get why you let your neighbour build a conservatory on your drive ? Without seeing the situation of your house And the set up there it’s impossible for anyone to answer this
I'm not even sure where to start trying to reply to this Grin
RatInADollhouse · 20/08/2020 07:17

Haven’t RTFT but I have to imagine penguin bollards have been suggested?

Nonotthisagain · 20/08/2020 10:11

I think the man in the photo might be the previous owner of your house OP and is admiring his new conservatory. 🤣

TonytheDog · 20/08/2020 11:40

As you defiantly won't drop your - not existent - curb what about wing mirror protectors? You could stick them down each side of your wall making it tricky for people to park there?
You could write different, amusing/rude, words on them "no parking", "I wish I had a dropped kerb", "this is my house fuckwit", "no geese for sale" etc

To not let people park across the drive that I don’t use?
Blanketyblanket · 20/08/2020 18:12

No geese for sale GrinGrinGrin

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RHRA · 20/08/2020 18:26

@Blanketyblanket
Were you able to get a word in edgeways with dickhead shouty neighbour? Because, never mind how your note upset his (blind) guest Confused, did you get a chance to tell him how being unable to leave your house entrance, with your children, upset you?

I think you’re going to have to get a chain with a sign on across the entrance, going forward +/- 2 potted bay trees. All this bother + cost, not on really.

ThursdayAfterNext · 20/08/2020 20:54

If it happens again, do this: www.thesun.co.uk/news/12444255/neighbour-parking-row-cellophane-car

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