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AIBU?

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To not let people park across the drive that I don’t use?

213 replies

Blanketyblanket · 17/08/2020 18:48

My house has a drive that runs next to the side of the house. For some reason the previous owners of the house built a conservatory across half the drive so it is almost impossible to actually get a car onto the drive. I’ve applied for planning permission to widen the driveway as it would involve knocking down part of the garden wall which is over 6foot. Massive backlog with PP at the moment in the area due to CV so not sure when it will actually happen.

The town I live in is very touristy. Parking is a nightmare every summer but this year has been particularly bad due to fewer people going abroad. As a result I’ve often not been able to find anywhere to parks I for the past few weeks I’ve been parking in front of the gap for my driveway. There’s no pavement or dropped kerb, it’s just an opening in the wall. My house is the only one on my side of the street. On the other side are about 6 houses, all with drives, so everyone parks on the side of the street that my house is on.

I come out today to find I can’t actually physically leave my house via my door as there is a car completely across the entrance to my drive. I hadn’t parked there as I only park there when I can’t find anywhere else. I can leave my house via the side door but it’s 20 steps down to the gate at the bottom of the garden, it’s a pain in the arse and very narrow and very often that gate is blocked by a car too. That’s not normally an issue as I don’t normally leave that way.

I put a note on the car parked across the drive saying ‘please don’t park here, access required’. Came back this afternoon to find the car still there and a neighbour from down the road came out to shout at me that I had upset his guests, where did I expect them to park, I was being really selfish in thinking that I had my own personal parking space when it’s a public highway. Luckily another neighbour came out and told angry neighbour that it was just temporary etc as angry neighbour wouldn’t let me get a word in.

So AIBU? I know it’s a public road but I’d never park across someone’s drive. The drives on my road generally only for one car so a lot of houses then park their other car across the dropped kerb. Bit different in my case I guess as I have no dropped kerb and no car on the actual drive. I very occasionally park my car on the drive but I never would at this time of year as if someone even slightly overhangs my drive I’ve got no chance of getting out again.

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coffeeagogo · 18/08/2020 10:38

More as a indication it is a driveway than actually useful

itsgettingweird · 18/08/2020 10:49

I looked at the picture and thought who the fuck would ever think it's ok to park across that hole in the wall driveway?

It just wouldn't ever occur to me that wasn't someone's entrance or exit to their house!

And your diagram made me jealous you had a house as big as the whole of the opposite street!

BlackeyedSusan · 18/08/2020 11:01

Sunblock is a bugger to get off too. I am sure there has been at least one coke can with a sunblock hand print on made from my old car.

BlackeyedSusan · 18/08/2020 11:03

It would be a shame if you had to look in the car to find contact details to see if you could get them to move.

CloudPop · 18/08/2020 11:13

@JaniceBattersby

Just get that bloke to tell people not to park there.
🤣🤣🤣
DrFoxtrot · 18/08/2020 11:14

YANBU

I'd be clambering over any car parked there and/or calling the police.

Biancadelrioisback · 18/08/2020 11:18

OP have you thought about dropping the kerb? Wink

VioletsAndJuniperBlossom · 18/08/2020 11:21

Perhaps leave a polite 'thank you' note on his screen. 😉

To not let people park across the drive that I don’t use?
PrayingandHoping · 18/08/2020 11:22

Of course you are in the right and neighbours guests had no right to park there!

I also have a drive at the same level as the road and no pavement so no dropped curve. No one has ever parked over it. I've had people over hang it before which is a pain but that's all.

GabriellaMontez · 18/08/2020 11:24

Yanbu.

I understand why PP are confused but I think if they saw your picture they would be clearer.

Whoever parked there is a CF.

minnieok · 18/08/2020 11:26

To be honest it doesn't look like a drive which means someone desperate for parking wouldn't think twice about parking there, but parking so tight you can't exit on foot is plain wrong. If it's an ongoing issue the council can paint a white line but means you can't park there either

Jaxhog · 18/08/2020 11:40

It's obviously a drive from the photo.

Why not put a pole across the gap and hang a sign on it ' driveway in use 24/7 - keep clear' . Then at least no-one would have the excuse that they didn't realize it was a drive, and you could nip under the pole until you get your PP and widen the entrance.

Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 18/08/2020 11:45

Q

GemmeFatale · 18/08/2020 13:20

Use the car to recreate the street dancing scene from fame?

MissEliza · 18/08/2020 13:21

Your neighbour is a complete arsehole.

Eminybob · 18/08/2020 13:44

Can you get the council to put one of those white H’s across your drive?

Ughmaybenot · 18/08/2020 13:45

If there’s no dropped kerb, you’ve no leg to stand on.
Annoying tho.

Eminybob · 18/08/2020 13:49

Are the people going on about dropping the curb taking the piss now or have they really not rtft?

NoWordForFluffy · 18/08/2020 14:06

@Eminybob

Are the people going on about dropping the curb taking the piss now or have they really not rtft?
I'd say the ones with a smiley are taking the piss. Anyone else? They've not RTFT!
help1help · 18/08/2020 14:11

@Blanketyblanket

The man isn’t normally there. Not sure who he is or what he’s up to. He’s not a pavement or a kerb and and I can’t paint lines on him.
GrinHe's staring in amazement at the sight of a driveway without a kerb!
viques · 18/08/2020 14:23

I would put a sign saying something like Emergency Access Required. Do Not Obstruct .

All true, you might need emergency access one day, but sounds a bit stronger than No Parking.

viques · 18/08/2020 14:29

@Blanketyblanket

beautiful3 I cannot drop the kerb. There is no kerb. It goes drive, then road. If anything was dropped it would make a trench.
I think that could be the answer.

Decent trench the length of the gap.

Drawbridge.

Though I don't think a traditional up and down one would work, but maybe a Bond villain slidey one would.

MulticolourMophead · 18/08/2020 14:30

@Eminybob

Can you get the council to put one of those white H’s across your drive?
OP says it's a conservation area. No white lines allowed.
Blanketyblanket · 18/08/2020 14:49

This thread reminds me of conversations I had with my grandparents when they were in their late 90’s

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Blanketyblanket · 18/08/2020 14:51

viques I’ll get working on a trench and a drawbridge. I could set up some Indiana Jones style traps as well.

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