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To ask how old you were when you first snogged someone

348 replies

Springiscoming20 · 11/08/2020 20:06

I’m talking propper snogging with tongues.

Was asked today by my 12yo dd and honestly couldn’t remember! Think it was somewhere around 14 but clearly wasn’t too memorable!

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Wannabangbang · 11/08/2020 21:46

11 1/2 on a school trip, very memorable for me as the whole school witnessed it lol

Veryverycalmnow · 11/08/2020 21:47

A boy led me by my hand to 'behind the wall' and bit my lip a few times when I was about 9 in the school playground and I thought that's what kissing was for a good few years... shudder to think if he's kept that technique into adulthood.
12/ 13 started kissing- had boyfriends that I took so seriously at the time, but I really wish now that I'd not been so distracted by boys at school. And university. Grin

Bobbi73 · 11/08/2020 21:48
  1. It's was horrible. I didn't do it again for a couple of years!
Zoflorabore · 11/08/2020 21:48

I was 12, he was 11. His name was James Morrison. Not the famous one.

My gorgeous 17ye old son hasn’t even kissed a girl yet. He’s so shy. He has a huge group of friends and more than half of them haven’t kissed anyone either. He tells me everything! ( sometimes too much )

Elmo311 · 11/08/2020 21:48

18! It was great! Haha

SunshineAndButtercups · 11/08/2020 21:50

17

OhKnackers · 11/08/2020 21:51
  1. And for some inexplicable reason I remember shaking beyond belief.
Dinosaurus86 · 11/08/2020 21:52

24! Girls school so lack of opportunity (although some of my friends managed to find boys elsewhere...). I was asked out a few times but never liked them back until mid 20s. I guess I was a late bloomer, although it did start to bother me by the time I was at university. But the first was very good in the end and I remember it well.

SallyLondon · 11/08/2020 21:54

About a month short of 14. We were at school together (but he was a couple of years older than me). We stayed very loosely in touch after school, bumping into each other now and again - and then my DD found herself in the same class as his son!

Phrowzunn · 11/08/2020 21:54

14 - at an ice disco! He was a random stranger, set up by my friends, just to get it out of the way. Then dated a (different) boy from 14-18, then met my now DH at 18. So I have kissed very, very few people Blush

fucknuckle · 11/08/2020 21:55

12, on a school trip to Switzerland. then he packed me the next day in the dining room in front of everyone.

he was a dribbler. no great loss.

Gingerfish91 · 11/08/2020 21:56

About 14. I can’t remember though 😂

WhoresDerves · 11/08/2020 21:57

I was 7, Sad the boy was 12, met him in the park, he took me back to his house, he then asked me if i wanted sex, i didn't know what sex was, when he told me what it was i legged it.

CloudsCanLookLikeSheep · 11/08/2020 21:58
  1. It were orrible!
Uberbeeboo · 11/08/2020 21:58

12 in a phone box Grin

Anjo2011 · 11/08/2020 21:58

13, he was a great kisser and my first ‘proper’ boyfriend and first love. They say you never forget.

Rhine · 11/08/2020 22:00
  1. Also thought I was ancient!
Emeraldshamrock · 11/08/2020 22:00

My gorgeous 17ye old son hasn’t even kissed a girl yet. He’s so shy. He has a huge group of friends and more than half of them haven’t kissed anyone either
I do think many of the early teens and preteens are under less pressure today, maybe they've more interesting things to do.

olivesnutsandcheese · 11/08/2020 22:01
  1. New years eve and my dad happened to see Blush
WinifredSanderson · 11/08/2020 22:02

18 at a work mate's engagement party. Looking back, he resembled one of Harry Enfield's scousers complete with moustache and curly hair. Cringe 😂

Areyouactuallyseriousrightnow · 11/08/2020 22:02

Nearly 14, didn’t especially enjoy it was just pleased to have gotten it out of the way!

TFSRM · 11/08/2020 22:03
  1. I feel like I should remember it but I don't.
Whatisthisfuckery · 11/08/2020 22:04

I was 12. I was pressured into it by a boy who went on to do much worse than pressure me to snog him. It was vile, I nearly threw up.

Nottherealslimshady · 11/08/2020 22:06

15ish. On the school field. A boy asked me out and I didn't like him but it felt rude to say no and all our friends told us to snog. Again, felt rude not to. I've only snogged 6 people! 😳

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 11/08/2020 22:07
  1. On french exchange. What a cliché!