I don’t know. I don’t deny their is racial prejudice in the police force. My brother for example, is a doctor, but Pakistani, and has been stopped much more than my husband for driving offences.
However, in the instance, the reaction of the police seems completely inline with police procedure, from what I experienced, and what the officers told us at the time of our experience.
That isn’t to say I don’t understand why the mother assumed it to be related to race. The procedure is scary, and heavy handed and when you’re used to experiencing racial bias constantly it can be difficult to assume that this isn’t another instance of it.
I will also say, my husband was confused and worried, but he wasn’t scared for his life. And I wasn’t either. I know a black family likely would have had more worrying thoughts than ‘what the hell is going on here’
I’m not saying that the same police department would have reacted in the same way to a white family, but what I’m saying is, we are a middle class white family, and we were treated the same (expect for gun location) so I do believe this is procedure.