[quote mathanxiety]@lifestooshort123
So now it's the fault of the mother that the boy opened the door himself at midnight, presumably after the police had identified themselves?
Presumably he had nothing to fear from the police and did as they ordered him to do?
When armed police with dogs, squad cars, sirens, lights, etc come banging on your door and demanding it be opened, do you wait to see what happens next or do you open it as quickly as humanly possible?
I have officially heard it all now. This child and his mother can't win for losing.[/quote]
Tbh I've written this earlier on the thread. Banging or not, what I'd think would have been a "normal" or safe and responsible response would be to run towards mum/parents and tell them what's happening (if they're sleeping) so they can go check it out. I thought it a completely irresponsible move for the boy to go towards the door at that time of the night, regardless who was shouting "police!" That would have been more reason to go get the responsible adult in the house first.
Didn't mum drum it in their ears to never open to door to people they don't know no matter who they say they are from a very young age?! I know I would/do. I wouldn't even expect the 23 year old daughter to do so in that situation, let alone the 12 year old. Not when I'm around (as their mum) and in the middle of the night.