@lilgreen
Strong value judgment? No, just my opinion.
"...the filtered pouty kind that are imo are shallow, vain, attention seeking..."
If that's not a strong value judgement then I really don't know what is. And if you feel so strongly that something is morally wrong then I don't know why you wouldn't own it.
But then, selfies - even the "shallow, vain, attention seeking" ones - aren't actually a moral issue. And the harder you question why they offend you so much, while denying you put a moral value on them, the more you realise that it's because there isn't any good reason. It's just this Cinderella complex about how women should never make themselves too visible, especially not if they like looking nice. And to be fair, all women get subjected to this crap and conditioned to it, so I do get where it comes from. But that's why it's important to be aware of it.
Anyway, I have decided. Tomorrow I'm going to do my hair nicely, put on makeup - red lipstick, maybe - and take and post a selfie from a flattering angle. I think most people on my feed think I am generally a good and nice person; if not, I don't know why they're connected to me. If there's anyone on there who thinks that a good woman wouldn't do that (vain, shallow etc but no moral judgement!), then I'd just kind of like to blow their mind. If I'm lucky they'll post selfies of their reactions.