To ask whether you’ve ever done this during sex...

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Recently started online dating after being divorced for many years. I fall in to the “old” category and during my marriage my sex life with exDH was nonexistent, so I’m fairly out of touch. I’ve recently met a new man who is a fair bit younger than me and sexually we are having a wonderful time. Recently he’s suggested I could ‘pleasure’ him anally by inserting a finger or even using some sort of toy to stimulate his prostrate.

According to him, this is very common nowadays and very popular with men. I’m wondering if this is true?!

My exDH would have been horrified if I’d have done such a thing and to be honest I had no idea that men even had a g spot! AIBU to ask how many of you have tried this and/or do this regularly with your OH?

Best thing is to stick a loo brush up there with a bit of vim for lube.

Men go wild for it!

@MostTacticalNameChange

Best thing is to stick a loo brush up there with a bit of vim for lube.

Men go wild for it!

@MostTacticalNameChange

Best thing is to stick a loo brush up there with a bit of vim for lube.

Men go wild for it!

Don't you mean.... Loobe?

I'm getting do much education from this thread. Mainly the different names people have for arseholes and the announcement that only about 1/3 of gay men like anal sex. I really had no idea - but then why would I?!

@Stuckforthefourthtime

AIBU to ask for women to post page after page of their experiences of playing with men's arses for me to enjoy learn from?

I threw a Jimmy in early but people still are happy to donate to the wank bank.

*Best thing is to stick a loo brush up there with a bit of vim for lube.

Men go wild for it!*

Can you still get vim ? I think not? it was such useful stuff but would be a major fail on todays plastic baths if, heaven forbid, one had to do ones own household chores.

Of course once a human has been to the loo, there should be no further surprises to be found up the clacker.

It would be ideal to use a disposable nitrile glove as not only would it keep your roving digit scrupulously clean but it would prevent any accidental damage to his inner fundament by our fingernail .

When was the last time you saw a man running around screaming that his dick was now coated with sperm/vaginal fluids or period blood last time he rodgered his partner?