@Dinosauratemydaffodils they wouldn't be better off without you, honestly.
I really do hope the exemptions get highlighted properly to stop the ensuing harassment. A lot of us were advised to stay at home for months (I was a selfish twunt who went out then as well) and for some they would be happy for us to stay locked away forever.
Those little spy cameras are really cheap btw, I'm using now as part of my going out coping protection thing. IF someone starts I also have evidence. My plan if it gets to it is try to ignore, mention exemptions and disability but not what is wrong with me. At least if the arse continues it's discrimination. I say it's the plan, but honestly don't know what will happen.
It's bloody hard though especially after reading some of the shite on here.So quick to condemn and call us various names yet fail to see what they are doing to us mentally. And often get told to not take it personally, it's not aimed at you etc, well who the fuck is it aimed at if not at us?
Try and ignore these negative things using whatever coping methods you can. Remember whenever you are out with the kids you are doing this for them. This really gets me through the day, them, but not in a weird they know way!! Obviously we are all different, and the only possible way I could maybe do it is with a scarf which isn't so clear cut to begin with as I struggle with them.
Distractions of course which are helping a lot, try if you can to focus more on the kids when out with them. I'm lucky as mine are older and youngest is at the don't want to be seen with mum stage! But this enabled me to go out alone to build up with more people around using various methods.
And most importantly please don't try and push yourself to appease others. It's not you. You aren't doing anything wrong they are by trying to shame you. They are for risking your physical and mental health whilst they bleat about saving people you don't know. You aren't selfish or whatever, if you was you wouldn't be thinking of your children and your family. And honestly there's nothing wrong with being selfish at times, we all do it to protect ourselves in some way.