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What does this word mean to you?

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DrierThanANunsNasty · 26/06/2020 00:00

Might be a bit cheeky but it’s the subject of my dissertation and I’ve found the research fascinating so far. So, fun little experiment (don’t read other people’s comments before answering and give your instinctive answer, don’t think about it too hard!)

What does the word ‘success‘ mean to you?

OP posts:
HardHatOptional · 26/06/2020 00:01

Achieving your goals

ssd · 26/06/2020 00:01

Being a good person, having decent kids and a good marriage.

GreyShadow · 26/06/2020 00:02

Being happy

SleepingStandingUp · 26/06/2020 00:03

Achievement, doing what you say or to do, attaining what you want from life. More job and career relayed than family and home. Good career, prospects, respect, good pay

FusionChefGeoff · 26/06/2020 00:04

Achieving something you set out to do.

So the 'thing' can be anything - be happy, run 5k, ruin someone's day, doesn't matter - but if you get it done then that is success.

A sense of achievement, or pride.

There's lots of unspoken caveats around the 'success measures' of the thing though with these eg the run 5k would probably have - without injuring myself / serious medical issues, in one attempt etc.

2littlefishes · 26/06/2020 00:04

Being happy and content in all aspects of your life eg. Work, family, finances, relationships.

Sparklesocks · 26/06/2020 00:06

Happiness, stability, contentment.

2littlefishes · 26/06/2020 00:06

I think it's all relative though... One person's successes won't necessarily be another's.

HateIsNotGood · 26/06/2020 00:07

tosspot aspirations not connected to real life.

zeddybrek · 26/06/2020 00:07

Peace and contentment with personal achievements. Being happy with where you are in life.

JellyButton15 · 26/06/2020 00:08

Fulfilled

DrierThanANunsNasty · 26/06/2020 00:08

@2littlefishes that’s the point of the question (and the experiment and my dissertation), I’m asking what success means to YOU

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june2007 · 26/06/2020 00:09

I think it is a feeling, You have achieved your goals, you are doing well,. For some it,s not living of others but some may think landing a sugar daddy was success.

JoyFreeCake · 26/06/2020 00:09

What was intended to happen happened.

june2007 · 26/06/2020 00:10

You could be successful in one aspect of your live but not deal sucessful in another,

devuskums · 26/06/2020 00:10

Getting that 'yessss' moment. Could be from saving money, completing a degree, getting pregnant...it's the culmination of what you have strived for... never mind what comes next.

JoyFreeCake · 26/06/2020 00:11

Aaaand I just read back up and realised that other people didn't interpret this as a "please define this vocabulary item" question 😂 Can I blame my ASD? 😂😂😂

xmummy2princesx · 26/06/2020 00:13

Being happy

CherryPavlova · 26/06/2020 00:13

Various Big Successes or Little successes - varies for me according to mood, age, circumstances and prior experience.
I might fail to make a successful soufflé but the supper party might still be a success.

Generally positive outcomes for things that matter to me, at any given time.

CherryPavlova · 26/06/2020 00:14

Currently I would think I’d been successful if I could sleep in this heat.

DrierThanANunsNasty · 26/06/2020 00:15

@JoyFreeCake actually a lot of participants in my legit experiment have defined the word very similar to you!

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MashedSpud · 26/06/2020 00:15

Succeeding.

lljkk · 26/06/2020 00:16

Things turned out how you wanted, or at least in a way you were happy/satisfied with afterwards.

JoyFreeCake · 26/06/2020 00:16

Of course it means something a little different to these guys.

What does this word mean to you?
JoyFreeCake · 26/06/2020 00:17

That's a relief Drier!

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