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What does this word mean to you?

114 replies

DrierThanANunsNasty · 26/06/2020 00:00

Might be a bit cheeky but it’s the subject of my dissertation and I’ve found the research fascinating so far. So, fun little experiment (don’t read other people’s comments before answering and give your instinctive answer, don’t think about it too hard!)

What does the word ‘success‘ mean to you?

OP posts:
maddy68 · 26/06/2020 00:19

Achieving your aspirations

MrsEricBana · 26/06/2020 00:19

Achieving whatever you personally set out to achieve, be it having a happy family life, having your novel published, opening that teashop, being financially secure or whatever it is ie it is definitely not synonymous with "financial success" for me.

2littlefishes · 26/06/2020 00:19

DrierThanANunsNasty but thats what I mean... something that make me feel successful is not even necessarily how I would judge someone else as achieving success.

Its really interesting to think about. It's amazing how a word has such a personal definition.

Mummyshark2019 · 26/06/2020 00:20

Success means being truly happy and content with where you are right now.

NSA2103 · 26/06/2020 00:22

Respect.

Namechange8471 · 26/06/2020 00:22

Money

DrierThanANunsNasty · 26/06/2020 00:23

@2littlefishes yeah sorry I didn’t realise you’d answered too! Exactly that, it’s the whole basis of my dissertation and I’ve found it fascinating so far - especially when all these gurus try to sell you success but when it’s so objective how can that possibly be the case? The answers here already are fascinating in their uniqueness.

OP posts:
Beldon · 26/06/2020 00:24

Something other people achieve

seaclaidte · 26/06/2020 00:25

Being content with where you are mentally and emotionally.

Hushabyelullabye · 26/06/2020 00:26

Achieving what you set out to achieve

DramaAlpaca · 26/06/2020 00:26

I would define success as a positive outcome.

Anxieteaa · 26/06/2020 00:31

Being happy, having more content days than bad

Natsel84 · 26/06/2020 00:32

Doing what you need to do to make you happy

wormshock · 26/06/2020 00:36

To achieve what you set out to.

TARSCOUT · 26/06/2020 00:36

When your life is exactly where you wanted it.

PainfulMemory · 26/06/2020 00:39

To die knowing I did my best to be a good person, that I learned from my mistakes, and leave behind people who genuinely love me.

TheMotherofAllDilemmas · 26/06/2020 00:45

Being happy with my life as it is.

morethanafortnight · 26/06/2020 00:48

Achieving your goal (however small) and being pleased at the outcome.

jcyclops · 26/06/2020 00:49

A positive outcome to one of your endeavours.

happinessischocolate · 26/06/2020 00:49

Happiness

VenusTiger · 26/06/2020 00:54

Positive accomplishment.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 26/06/2020 00:55

Financial security

frenchfancy81 · 26/06/2020 00:57

Achieving what you set out to do and feeling a sense of fulfillment in doing so. Making yourself and others proud.

Sittingontheveranda · 26/06/2020 00:58

Winning at whatever goal you set yourself.

WinWinnieTheWay · 26/06/2020 00:59

Being happy with my life choices