To start a psycho ex wife club?

[Mrspoopoohead]

Apparently My abusive ex DH thinks I’m a psycho and I he described me as demented today on a social media post! I just wondered if anyone else is in the same boat and could regale me with your tales? Some of the things my ex DH got up to are so far fetched you wouldn’t believe them!

I'm in, and I'll be Chairman and Treasurer.

My ex described me as a "psycho" because I called the police when he threatened to burn the flat down after I refused to fund his "business venture". Apparently that kind of thing is the normal cut and thrust of marriage.

I’m in. I’ll be social events coordinator.

Every person we ever knew as a couple now believes I am mad. They all apparently hate me and are disgusted by me because I called the police on him when he attacked me in front of my child and have had to call them a few more times when he has become aggressive at my home and refused to leave. "You just don't involve The Law" apparently and by doing so I "threw him to the wolves".

I’m in. But I’m only periodically psychotic, as when he wants me to do him a favour or listen to his latest tale of woe or imaginary illness (which he doesn’t want to bore new wife who he left me for with) then it’s like he thinks I’m his best pal 😂 And thinks I’m interested...

I'm in. Apparently I'm "disturbed". Goodo mate. 😂

Crazy women are the new witches. 🧙‍♀️🧹

I will put my hand up on here and admit to deliberately masterminding an entire global pandemic purely to mildly inconvenience my ex. Sorry everybody!

I was a prostitute apparently - can I join? I could filter tmi posts...

I feel like I founded the psycho ex club. Not wife, but ex. I shit you not. It's been over 12 years I've not been with him. I'm still all sorts of things. Only 6 years after he stopped seeing DD he still wont leave me alone.

Backstory. He sexually abused me from age 13, he abused my siblings in a similar manner. I've been trying to "destroy his life" because my siblings reported him to the police.

@sunnydayshereatlast I forgot - I was a prostitute too because I met up with friends for an evening out once in a whole 3 years. Exactly the sort of thing a prostitute would do

Me! Me! This is terribly outing considering I've just name changed but apparently I'm 'not well' because I don't want him to get our children to keep secrets from such as handling air rifles aged 6&7 which resulted in police and social services involvement or I reported to police a video he sent me of a teenage girls genitals as I couldn't be sure she was over 18 so neither could he (why he sent it remains a mystery), I'm also unhinges because I don't think him or his family should be able to let themselves into my house when they want. I could go in forever but I'm apparently the crazy one....

@Rumbletumbleinmytummy I hope his life WAS destroyed - he would deserve it!

I was called a frigid slag by ex partner during one particularly bad argument. I was too busy wondering if he'd clock the oxymoron to even be offended. He did.

But, according to him and most of his friends, I am a frigid, micromanaging bitch as I apparently did nothing but criticise on the rare occasions I designed to have sex with him. My real complaint was that I woke up to him raping me but that part of the story never filtered through to his social group.

*He did not, that should say.

I’ll join!

I’m crazy, mental, a slag and thick to boot.

Can I join!? Apparently I'm "abusive" to ask when he wants to see our child...errrr...

Oh, and "mental" to make him leave after he was warned by the police and social services not to hurt or threaten me and then pushed me backwards against some tiles, and I was told letting him stay would be putting my daughter last...

Apparently it "still stings" lol

Pretty sure I qualify for membership. I am obsessed with my child and need Psychiatric help because I wouldn’t agree to my son “living with” ex’s alcoholic mother two days a week so we could go out whenever “we” wanted. Now he just tortures me from afar over clothes, contact and (not paying) maintenance.

Thank fuck for the ex bit. I’ll happily take the psycho but to be his ex.

Ooh yes, I'll join too. Not only am I a psycho, I am a frigid slut. Go figure...

I mean this kindly OP - the best thing you can do isn't to start a club, but to rise above it, move on, and completely ignore. Your ex would only revel in it more to see you've been triggered.

(By the way I do realise you aren't actually considering an actual club - I think)

My abusive ex said in recent court papers that I had unresolved mental health issues, which I assume means I qualify for this club

My ex worked for CID and convinced me my every move/ thought would be recorded or uncovered, including contact from extended family members etc.
Whenever I tried to stand up to him, he would have it recorded at work as a further cause for his home related stress and anxiety disorder.

So obviously I’d like to join, but would have to use a false name, wear a joke moustache etc 😂

My ex embezzled 15k from me, abandoned me in another country, and once left a dead animal outside my front door. Told everyone that I was a psychotic bitch, because, shocker, I was angry about these things. Several of his friends no longer speak to him, but are still friendly with me, so that tells you all you need to know about his character...