To start a psycho ex wife club?

[Mrspoopoohead]

Apparently My abusive ex DH thinks I’m a psycho and I he described me as demented today on a social media post! I just wondered if anyone else is in the same boat and could regale me with your tales? Some of the things my ex DH got up to are so far fetched you wouldn’t believe them!

Me me me !!! I’ve got to join this club.

I divorced my abusive exh over ten years ago. He’s not allowed to have my phone number or come to my home due to a court order been in place because he abused me in front of dd. I’ve not had a conversation with the bloke for ten years because the last time I tried too he spat at me in the face BUT I’m obsessed with him and won’t let him move on because I made the cms take his money from him.

CathyTre Yes what is it with them still wanting you to be their mate?

We've been separated for over five years, nearly divorced. I've been in a relationship with someone else for over 18 months. He's made numerous suicide threats and a threat against my life. I've called the police on him numerous times, successfully secured an injunction against him once. He's physically threatened my now boyfriend. He regularly demands money from me and says he'll go to social services (with what?) when I decline to pay.

And he gets routinely gets upset and huffy that I "don't have time for him" and wonders why I don't call him for a chat. WTF? I think because I am literally the only person ever to have made him for his paranoid, self-indulgent maunderings he thinks this is some sort of lifetime endowment.

Im in!!!

Ooh, I didn't marry him (because I came to my senses in time) but can I join? When he learned I was getting married through mutual friend he told her she wasn't allowed to talk to me anymore and that I'm awful, caused his cousin's death (which was tragic given she was 20 but she also had Cystic Fibrosis and lived in a hot country on the opposite side of the world to me) and he had been standing on Waverly Bridge about to end it all over me on several occassions.

I mean, the fact he sexually assaulted me regularly, shouted and swore in my face and eventually lost his shit and hurled abuse at several of my friends when they tried to protect me after he screamed at me to get out of his house were clearly not reason enough for me to leave him.

I'm in. My ex has recently been describing my behaviour as gaslighting. This the man who got a warning from the Police when our neighbour reported concerns over his DV towards me. Apparently I am a psychopath who insights rage and twists the facts (facts like he said I could leave the relationship in a wheeliebin)

Me please! I’m mentally unhinged and managed to fake enough evidence for the CPS to get several assault convictions. Also managed to magic up a few assaults on police while I’m at it.

Of course the new DP has been fed a different story. I spoke to her once and begged her to use Claire’s law to protect herself but sadly I don’t think she has....

I'm in. So 'mental' that he convinced my own family to patronise and be 'concerned' for me.
Ditto his new girlfriend, who is 30 fucking years younger than him.

Fucking arsehole.

In reality I'm a very competent working single mum with two kids. It feels good to.say that.
One fully grown up and off to uni, and both happy and flourishing.
I was never mental.

Apparently I'm fucking obsessed by him so much so he is forced to lie and sneak away on holiday this weeks lie is his car has broken down I've had a message off his fair weather friend letting me know he is actually on holiday I've told him I already know he is on holiday he has trotted that back to my ex who messaged me asking why I'm telling people he is on holiday 🤣🤣🤣 I said I thought your car broke down? Now he can't say much as its HIS friend stirring the pot in the first place he has got his lies twisted and will now ignore the conversation that HE STARTED

Honestly I don't care if he has a holiday I tell him when we are having a holiday why can't he just tell me I'm off on holiday I would be ok let me know if you want to call the kids in the week 👋👋👋

Insanity

I'm in

Me too.

I left him after he beat me up. So selfish.

Can I join even though I failed to marry him? Apparently all our joint friends stopping liking him when I told them he raped me.

He did. But I didnt need to tell them (and hadnt), they were only putting up with him whilst he was with me and were glad not to have to bother with him afterwards.

When we were together he used to give his children pocket money in secret. He told them and their mother I didn't want them to have it. Reality it was to stop me giving money to my own children.

That I worked as a escort while my chidren were small

That I stopped him seeing the children. ( Court didn't award him any access)

And the one that bothers me the most was that I was physically abusive to him. He took up a new hobby after we split up and confided in them. About how awful I was .

Like most psychologically abusive men he could turn on the charm and water works. His family haven't spoken to me since we split up. He would have told them do many awful lies.

I'm in! Too many examples tbh, but the ones that stand out are how the video I had of him beating me up was edited, that he had to throw things at me to stop me attacking him physically, and that I broke his wrist (no sweetie, that was when you hit me). Oh yes, and I somehow managed to get all four Police officers involved in arresting & interviewing him to lie and fabricate evidence against him.

I must be a fucking evil genius.

My ex boyfriend raped me when I was 18 and although I hadn’t reported it to the police or confided in anyone he jumped the gun by telling his family, friends and colleagues that I was mentally unwell and suffered from split personality disorder so I was to be pitied for the lies I came out with. I hadn’t told anything to anyone

I’m in.

I'm in. I'll leave the stories for now, but just think DARVO.

My ex h lied and gambled his way through our relationship. Sold mine and the kids things and left me in enormous debt after he commuted fraud by taking our loans and credit cards in my name, but I'm a gold digger apparently 😂

He's also weird as fuck and wants to be friends with my now DH.

I'm in!

My ex left me for someone else, told me all sorts of awful things after doing so. Yet, I'm the crazy psycho ex who just won't leave him alone. I'm obsessed with him apparently 🙄.

His new 'girlfriend' messages me every time he ignores her, cause she's scared he's with me. Also tells me how to parent my own children when she's never met them. Yet I'm the bad one?

Oh I also emotionally abused him throughout the whole relationship and treat him like crap. How do they manage to reverse facts and people believe them? The mind boggles!

Ooh yes please.
I'm, and I quote "not right in the head" because I cut him off after he shagged at least three other women.

Oh, me too.

I’m mentally unstable because I failed to sufficiently react and get upset when he called my mum out of the blue after 6 years to ask if she knew where to get a certain breed of puppy, despite the fact that she lives over 100 miles away from him, him having no transport to travel to collect said puppy, and him consistently stating he hates said breed of dog and that if he owned one he’d get annoyed with it and stamp on it and break it. Then he managed to get hold of said breed of puppy, which is the same breed of dog our family owned when he met me. He called the new puppy by the same name as said family dog. This was all a grand revenge plot to get me back for reporting him to the RSPCA for abusing, and subsequently killing his previous dog.

I’m a crazy unhinged psycho evil sociopathic bitch for many reasons but that’s my favourite.

I'm in.

I'll organise the "psycho secret santa".

The wife before me would probably join too. Turns out that the "sociopath" with a personality disorder is actually really nice! (But then apparently, I am psychotic with various disorders too).

I’m in! I’m an unreasonable complete slag because he was convicted of beating me unconscious a year AFTER I’d left him. Apparently if I had not moved on this wouldn’t have happened....

I'm a psycho because I chose to move nearly 100 miles away without cause. Threatening to burn me alive and slit my throat (on numerous occasions) is not good enough cause.

Neither is having my rubbish rifled through, being followed, spat at, shouted at, pushed, pinched, punched, during divorce and even after.

I'll happily join the psycho ex wife's club.

Wow so many awful men out there. It did make me laugh when he called me demented today. I’m totally over it I divorced him 14 years ago and we have 2 grown DC. He just seems to not be able to fully let go. He was mainly emotionally abusive and very manipulative isolated me from family and friends, told me I was lucky to have him all the while he was on dating sites meeting women for sex. He also faked having cancer a couple of times as well as other serious illnesses to make me feel sorry for him and presumably stay under his control. Apparently he was also ex SAS and could kill with his bare hands! Fortunately I never found out although he did threaten me with a knife after throttling me! He was also a pathological liar and gaslighted me all the time. Looking back it’s obvious he has some sort of personality disorder but has never been diagnosed.

Oh can I join? I could do the fundraising.
Apparently....wait for it.....raped him to get pregnant so he wouldn’t leave me. Translated that means he was sleeping with me without contraception whilst he was setting up home with the OW. This made all the worse in that he once worked as a support worker with male victims of sexual abuse. I am also long term abusive and he’s frightened of me. That would be when he’s not leaving bruises on me.

Not only am I the hated psycho ex; I also had no end of them turn up on my doorstep getting shouty because ex stole large sums of money from them before he fucked off abroad, and many of them thought I should pay them what he owed.

Apparently only a psycho reports a boyfriend to the police for raping me over 100 times across the relationship and beating her, finally to within an inch of my life (which is when I spoke to the police). Our mutual friends sided with him even after one visited me in hospital. They harrassed me so much I had to move miles away and cut ties with everyone.