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What is your biggest lifestyle indulgence?

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Thankfucksummerishere · 06/06/2020 21:13

Mulling this over as I look through job listings. I think for me it is enjoying fitness classes at different expensive studios, well pre covid it was. Not sure when we will be able to do that again! But I really enjoy it so much and it is definitely not an essential, I'm fortunate to be able to do so. We do live in an eye-wateringly expensive area so I guess that is partly a luxury, although we do need to live in this city for my partner's work.

What would you say is the most luxury aspect of your lifestyle?

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WilsonMilson · 16/03/2021 14:00

It used to be expensive bags and shoes, but now I’m not going anywhere it’s become nice food and expensive face creams and lotions.

MaxNormal · 16/03/2021 14:02

Good quality, mostly organic food.

Londonmummy66 · 16/03/2021 14:03

Sending DC to boarding school although that is for them not for me (6th form and really wanted to go)

For me - things that smell nice so Jo Malone perfume, REN bath oil and Diptyque candles
Glyndebourne and a box at the Proms
Membership of a West End club for all the family (although it does have a really nice gym and pool and membership is cheaper than a CIty gym so not that extravagant).

Chocolateandamaretto · 16/03/2021 14:04

Osteopath

Yorkshiremummyof1 · 16/03/2021 14:06

My zoo and my workout gear that’s in the summer house. Made my own gym basically

giao · 16/03/2021 14:07

Expensive art and craft materials, and lovely storage to keep it all in.

I think I enjoy looking at it more than using it.

Beverley71 · 16/03/2021 14:08

We own a caravan on a Haven holiday park. It might not seem luxury but the upkeep is really expensive. Every year when the site fees are due I think about getting rid of it but we love the lifestyle of being able to go when we want, somewhere familiar and seeing our owner friends.

Inextremis · 16/03/2021 14:15

Food. Fresh fish deliveries, recipe books, kitchen gadgets, spices and exotic oils. Quality ingredients. Also tea - currently have six different types, none of which are herbal :)

Candyfloss99 · 16/03/2021 14:16

My second car, my animals and my holidays.

NotMeekNotObedient · 16/03/2021 14:18

Food definitely.

The occasional massage/beauty treatment. Would love to have more regular massages.

RedRiverShore · 16/03/2021 14:22

Holidays, but since we are stuck here for the foreseeable it will be a new motorhome.

Allmyarseandpeggymartin · 16/03/2021 14:23

Cleaner. I’d give my husband up before I gave her up

Okbye · 16/03/2021 14:25

Holidays to Disneyworld. Cant wait till we're allowed to go again! 😩

Flippyferloppy · 16/03/2021 14:26

Getting my nails done (although if I don't, my hands end up in a right state).
For the last month, a cleaner. Bliss...

JustDanceAddict · 16/03/2021 14:32

Probably food - even now!
I get a good hair cut/colour every 8 weeks or so. I’ve been to cheaper salons but the experience is just not as nice (esp in Covid times, the one I go to is very safe).
Books - but mainly kindle and I wait till they’re reduced!!

RacheyCat · 16/03/2021 14:34

Nails, skin care, yoga classes. I used to just attend the classes at my local gym so they were included in membership, but now I'm going to a boutique studio with a sea view. Seems especially indulgent but completely exquisite. Every time I go to class, the upheaval of moving here feels especially worth it and I remember why I moved 3000 miles without DH (he's joining in a few months) during a pandemic.

MeribleMelon · 16/03/2021 14:35

Outdoor gear and sports kit in general... mountain bike, ski stuff, I play hockey... LOVE running trainers. I do run a lot so it’s justified 😁 decathlon is my crack.

RacheyCat · 16/03/2021 14:35

Kilometers, not miles, in fact. Blush

RacheyCat · 16/03/2021 14:37

@NotMeekNotObedient

Food definitely.

The occasional massage/beauty treatment. Would love to have more regular massages.

Oh gosh, and foot massages. I really try to get one a week. They're reasonably priced and I massively prefer them to regular massages where you have to lie face down and end up all puffy and with rumpled hair.
Blondiney · 16/03/2021 14:40

Perfume, my collection is obscene.

Dogs. My beasties have their own chest freezer, packed with gruesome stuff.

DarlingCoffee · 16/03/2021 14:40

Flowers and subscription coffee pods. And Abel and Cole veg box. All of these make me very happy

Icantrememebrtheartist · 16/03/2021 14:46

My children. I didn’t want any until I hit 39 and now I have 3. I had money before them - now I have none!

Sgtmajormummy · 16/03/2021 14:47

Holidays, posh plates (€20 for a cereal bowl when they’re €3 at IKEA, but, hey, I’ll have that too!) and regular additions to my fabric stash.

Sgtmajormummy · 16/03/2021 14:50

And Lampe Berger oils.

HeyGirlHeyBoy · 16/03/2021 14:50

Skincare, holidays (!), gifts for friends. Came on here for ideas really Grin I find it interesting that I'm reading some posts and thinking 'Ooh good idea' and others realising some things don't matter to me. We're all different Smile