I used to live in Pound Hill and Three Bridges, have relatives there, and Horsham. Nothing wrong with the areas, good schools. When we lived in Lingfield, we were right under the flight path, not a lot of aircraft noise in Pound Hill and Three Bridges, (Charlwood, yes!!)though. We moved because the houses in Surrey are so expensive, and the council tax, more for your money in Sussex. Lindfield, haha, born and bred there! Pretty, but a lot of snobby "village" mentality, (clicky)none of my friends ever moved out, still live in the next road to their parents. I like Horsham, its so clean, lack of litter and broken bottles!! Gardening is my big "thing" so I would want (and have a huge plot) Plus side its a cul-d-sac, good schools there. Have you looked in Kent at all, nice areas around Tunbridge Wells, easy commute to London, yes, I have a DD there as well!!