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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to ask what the best piece of advice you've been given was?

244 replies

GabrielleChanel · 31/05/2020 15:50

What would you do differently?

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Spotsonmyapples · 31/05/2020 18:29

Oh and also you don't have to consider forgiving someone unless they have a asked you for forgiveness.

TeenPlusTwenties · 31/05/2020 18:30

'Don't worry about the 2s' by my maths director of studies 30 years ago.

It means worry about the big picture and where you are heading before fussing over tiny details.

Carpathian2 · 31/05/2020 18:30

Don't make excuses for a horrible person. You can't put flowers in an arsehole and call it a vase.

Paranoidmarvin · 31/05/2020 18:32

Pick ur battles with ur kids. Best sentence ever

missmouse101 · 31/05/2020 18:33

You can always choose how you react.

The thought of doing something you don't want to do is always worse than actually just doing it.

lilgreen · 31/05/2020 18:33

This too shall pass.(Needed that a few times)
Don’t trouble trouble unless trouble troubles you.

Greenpop21 · 31/05/2020 18:35

Don’t spend what you haven’t got.
Always save at least 10% of what you earn.

Credenhill22 · 31/05/2020 18:36

If you want loyalty from someone in life....buy a dog.

Spied · 31/05/2020 18:37

You can't stop the waves- but you can learn to surf
Helps me through difficult times.
Quote but good adviceGrin

DuckALaurent · 31/05/2020 18:40

Save money as soon as you start earning it.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

Samtsirch · 31/05/2020 18:44

Treat others how you would like to be treated ( don’t always manage it, but try)
Never mix the grape and the grain ( don’t always manage it😆)
There’s always a way back ( from disappointment / failure etc)

recycledbottle · 31/05/2020 18:47

Dont mix spirits and wine

Never apologise to a bully

Dont allow yourself to be used as cannonfodder

SkiingIsHeaven · 31/05/2020 18:51

Don't eat yellow snow.

Samtsirch · 31/05/2020 18:53

@SkiingIsHeaven
😂. Always used to say this to my children when they were little 😂

Wearywithteens · 31/05/2020 18:53

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willowmelangell · 31/05/2020 18:54

When someone is being mean to you, it means they are jealous of something.
Said to me by my mum. Absolutely no use as a bullied teenager, but has been useful since.

Spotsonmyapples · 31/05/2020 18:54

Financial - 80% off is still 20% on.

Ohtherewearethen · 31/05/2020 18:55

You cant polish a turd but you can put glitter on it. (Sorry, slightly distasteful!)

If you raise your children you'll get to spoil your grandchildren. If you spoil your children you'll get to raise your grandchildren.

Sometimes, all it takes is time. And that is the one thing that cannot be rushed.

Never let anyone make you cry twice.

Laurendelight · 31/05/2020 18:55

Don’t judge people by your own standards.

rookiemere · 31/05/2020 18:58

Sometimes you're the bug on the windscreen and sometimes you're the windscreen wiper.

isthismylifenow · 31/05/2020 18:59

I like the 5 year rule.

If it's not going to matter in 5 years time, don't spend more than 5 minutes thinking about it.

If course I bend this quote a bit, but if it's going to affect things long term, then put thought into it. If it's not, go with your gut.

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 31/05/2020 19:00

Never try and make a happy baby happier

Janaih · 31/05/2020 19:02

The best way to destroy your enemy is to make them your friend. It also confuses the fuck out of them.

During an argument, never speak more than 2 sentences at a time.

isthismylifenow · 31/05/2020 19:02

Amazing thread. Needed this right now.

Never let anyone make you cry twice.

My Nana said this to me. I should have listened to her.

OhTheRoses · 31/05/2020 19:07

Get engaged, married and breed in that order.
Spend some, save some.
Hear all, see all, say nowt
It's all in the preparation
If a man raises his hand once, he'll raise it twice
I don't care how you feel, stand up straight and smile
Appearance matters

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