To think this profile and DH doesn't stack up . . . .

[Hulloandwelcome]

DH and I married 15 years, 2 kids, we have grown up together. Always lived in the same town, the one we lived in as children. Pretty good relationship, same as most of my friends and typical of those after this amount of time together - a bit stale, but generally a functional marriage.
I had a few drinks (via zoom) with some girlfriends at the weekend, which turned into a bit of a bitch fest about people we went to school with. 'who is still with so and so' ' have you seen how much botox such and such has had' silly childish stuff that was fulled by boredom and way too much Cava. This lead to us trawling through DH's facebook friends looking for someone who we all wondered if was still with their idiot DH. We all spotted this profile that none of us know, no connections in common, no sense of familiarity. It didn't just stand out to me, my BF spotted it too and asked who she was. For context, we have a small friend group, DH doesn't have 100's of friends, he goes to the gym, plays football and works with mostly men. BF asked her DH if he knew who she was, he had no idea and had never seen her before. So I asked DH, the response was 'oh we used to work together' For some reason the speed of his response and then his manner for the rest of the evening (he told me off for bitching about people, that I should #bekind) didn't sit right. So I did more digging. She doesn't have much of an online presence but I found her on LinkedIn, they haven't worked together according to her profile and it doesn't seem possible looking at their careers - plus she doesn't live anywhere near us. AIBU to think there is more to this than an old work pal? Or is boredom getting to me. Can't sleep for thinking about it . . .

[scrambledbrambles]

Ugh.

Give your head a shake OP.

[Friendsofmine]

Student jobs? I definitely don't remember LinkedIn in the 90s!

[unfortunateevents]

If you all share the same friends and know each other so well, why were you trawling through your DH's FB profile instead of yours? While I can't imagine having the kind of "bitch fest" with my friends that you say you were having with yours, I would be even more creeped out if they then decided to trawl through my other half's FB and interrogate me about a random profile. Whether your DH is or isn't cheating, I think you both need to broaden your horizons a bit and meet some new people. Currently it sounds like you live in Claustrophobia Central.