The NHS was an awesome idea that relieved people's fear of illness, to a degree, in an era when medical knowledge and capability was in its (relative) infancy. 70 years on, life expectancy has grown immensely and people survive many years WITH conditions that would have killed them quite fast 20 years ago, or would have seen them off via flu turning to pneumonia.
The advance in medical practice is welcome.
But the corollary is that everyone now thinks that their granny, age 75, should be saved by every possible and expensive medical intervention, despite said gran having eaten and drunk her fill (to excess even) for 65 years should be saved to watch daytime TV alone for another 18 months.
The NHS, if not carefully managed, could very easily absorb 100% of GDP, and still not prevent the death of elderly and ill people.
I know it's not easy to distance oneself and de-personalise topics when you are worrying about a sick member of your family. Everyone craves a few more moments with individuals they cherish. But no one who reads this is going to live forever. We ALL die, of or from or with something, eventually.