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AIBU?

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To think that people who end messages with ‘stay safe’

301 replies

Whatisthepoint2020 · 11/04/2020 06:34

Are twats?

Maybe it’s because DP is a key worker so doesn’t have the option to ‘stay safe’ but it gives me the rage.

OP posts:
Whatisthepoint2020 · 11/04/2020 13:15

@slip you need to read the whole sentence

OP posts:
SlipSlidin · 11/04/2020 13:20

I did real the full sentence, you’re still clutching at straws to try and validate your horrible thread.

justanotherneighinparadise · 11/04/2020 13:23

@CustardySergeant

It’s a demand to do something you have no way of actually achieving.

Pinkblueberry · 11/04/2020 13:25

The other day my DH said good morning, although I wasn’t having good morning. Imagine that Hmm

justanotherneighinparadise · 11/04/2020 13:28

To add; it’s reminiscent of the ridiculous talk that goes with cancer. ‘Keep fighting’ etc. Cancer patients have no way of influencing their prognosis in the same way that none of us can actually keep bloody safe from this virus.

If you want to bark ‘stay inside’ to me. Then yep, I can do that. But ‘stay safe’, well no I can’t. I have to go shopping, I have to accept my vulnerable DP working, those things put us at risk. So I can try to stay safe, if that’s your requirement, but otherwise I’m just shitting myself in the same way that most of us are.

SpencerReidsMistress · 11/04/2020 13:38

I think it's lovely.

I get more annoyed with people ending sentences with LOL.

Bluebell878275 · 11/04/2020 13:46

01mumsmas1
@HarrySnotter
I totally agree get over yourselves its people refusing to do as they are told and think they know better that are ruining this countrys economy by slowing down the final release from lockdown - Christ if people cant even behave themselves for the health and wllbeing of the country then WTF...and Im guessing many of the same people voted for Brexit.....

Fuck off Biscuit

Moomin12345 · 11/04/2020 13:48

I agree. I personally only use "live fast, die young" at the end of all my emails.

ineedsun · 11/04/2020 13:57

@ShastaBeast

I'm sorry I have no idea what you're replying to, I can only find one of my posts and it doesn't seem to relate to this.

SlipSlidin · 11/04/2020 13:58

I prefer Steve Wright’s “don’t get lost or killed”.

Then again, “don’t” is a contraction of “do not” so there’s me authoritarianly commanding again. Oh dear how dreadful of me.

BootShakin · 11/04/2020 13:59

I mean it when I say it.

BossAssBitch · 11/04/2020 14:17

I’d say you’re a twat for being so judgy. ‘Stay safe’ is a kind, well meaning phrase Hmm

Taddda · 11/04/2020 14:18

Then again, “don’t” is a contraction of “do not” so there’s me authoritarianly commanding again. Oh dear how dreadful of me.

Nah, your just a twat

SlipSlidin · 11/04/2020 14:45

@Taddda I was being ironic you judgemental tool. And it’s “you’re” by the way.

If you bothered to read any previous posts you would know that.

redcarbluecar · 11/04/2020 14:49

Blimey. I’ve used this as a sign off and I’m definitely not a twat. It’s meant with warmth as a way of showing that you care about the person and hope they’ll be ok. I’m fairly sure this is how it’s understood in context as well- although if anyone expressed annoyance, I’d stop using it.
Maybe save your playground insults for people who have actually done unpleasant things.

Taddda · 11/04/2020 14:53

*I was being ironic you judgemental tool. And it’s “you’re” by the way.

If you bothered to read any previous posts you would know that.*

I'm glad you recognised 'you're' a twat....Grin

Countrygirl38 · 11/04/2020 14:56

I am a keyworker and I think it is very sweet when people say this to me. They want me to keep safe and well. Sorry OP but I think you are being very unreasonable

FredWinnie · 11/04/2020 14:59

I have a friend who is a key worker in health, so she's front line

I text 'stay safe' at the end of our exchanges every time. And mean it

So yes, YAB massively U

lotusbell · 11/04/2020 15:09

Ah but @redcarbluecar, can you really be sure that you're definitely not a twat? Because I know I am, sometimes 🤣

Technonan · 11/04/2020 15:09

Memo to self: end all communications with 'Stay unsafe.'

SlipSlidin · 11/04/2020 15:11

@Taddda right back atcha twatface 🤪

ferntwist · 11/04/2020 15:12

YABU. What an over-reaction

HarrySnotter · 11/04/2020 15:12

Oh look people are arguing and telling each other twats and to fuck off. Objective achieved OP, well done you.

malificent7 · 11/04/2020 15:15

I started saying it before it becane a thing.

redcarbluecar · 11/04/2020 15:27

@lotusbell - you are right to question this! 😂