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To not give up my delivery slots..

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Shootingstar2918 · 27/03/2020 19:09

Hi all, background... I am not vulnerable and I am fit and healthy and able to go shopping but it’s extremely difficult. I have two children with autism and my partner has to work. I live 12 miles away from the nearest large supermarket. The village shop doesn’t sell much.

I get my shopping delivered every week without fail at the same time every week. I always book slots in advance particularly at usual peak times - Christmas, Easter, summer holidays.

My partner still has to work long hours so not as easy as one of us getting to the shop. By the time he finishes this week the shops are shut. They don’t open late here.

I have two shops booked. One for next week and another for the week after.

Been told I’m selfish for not leaving them for the vulnerable?

I booked these 2 weeks ago! When Tesco released easter bank holiday priority slots for delivery savers!

Surely I should keep my slots and not be made to feel guilty?

I know I’ll probably have to shop in store after these 2 slots!

OP posts:
Yellowbutterfly1 · 31/03/2020 09:21

Can anybody tell me where is says that people with a learning disability are in the vulnerable group pls?
I haven’t seen it anywhere but some people are saying they are included.

DuLANGDuLANGDuLANG · 31/03/2020 10:17

There are two groups of people thought to be more at risk, a wider vulnerable group (includes elderly people) and the 1.5m extremely vulnerable people who got a letter in the post. ‘Learning disability’ is on the list for the wider group, but no specifics are given. it’s part of a description of ‘chronic neurological conditions’.

The following lists are copy and pasted from the .gov website.

Group 1

We are advising those who are at increased risk of severe illness from coronavirus (COVID-19) to be particularly stringent in following social distancing measures.
This group includes those who are:

aged 70 or older (regardless of medical conditions)
under 70 with an underlying health condition listed below (ie anyone instructed to get a flu jab as an adult each year on medical grounds):
chronic (long-term) respiratory diseases, such as asthma, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), emphysema or bronchitis
chronic heart disease, such as heart failure
chronic kidney disease
chronic liver disease, such as hepatitis
chronic neurological conditions, such as Parkinson’s disease, motor neurone disease, multiple sclerosis (MS), a learning disability or cerebral palsy
diabetes
problems with your spleen – for example, sickle cell disease or if you have had your spleen removed
a weakened immune system as the result of conditions such as HIV and AIDS, or medicines such as steroid tablets or chemotherapy
being seriously overweight (a body mass index (BMI) of 40 or above)
those who are pregnant

———————————-

Group 2:

This guidance is for people, including children, who are at very high risk of severe illness from coronavirus (COVID-19) because of an underlying health condition, and for their family, friends and carers. It is intended for use in situations where the extremely vulnerable person is living in their own home, with or without additional support. This includes the extremely clinically vulnerable people living in long-term care facilities, either for the elderly or persons with special needs.

Shielding is a measure to protect people who are clinically extremely vulnerable by minimising all interaction between those who are extremely vulnerable and others. We are strongly advising people with serious underlying health conditions (listed below), which put them at very high risk of severe illness from coronavirus (COVID-19), to rigorously follow shielding measures in order to keep themselves safe.

What do we mean by extremely vulnerable?
People falling into this extremely vulnerable group include:

Solid organ transplant recipients.
People with specific cancers:
people with cancer who are undergoing active chemotherapy
people with lung cancer who are undergoing radical radiotherapy
people with cancers of the blood or bone marrow such as leukaemia, lymphoma or myeloma who are at any stage of treatment
people having immunotherapy or other continuing antibody treatments for cancer
people having other targeted cancer treatments which can affect the immune system, such as protein kinase inhibitors or PARP inhibitors
people who have had bone marrow or stem cell transplants in the last 6 months, or who are still taking immunosuppression drugs
People with severe respiratory conditions including all cystic fibrosis, severe asthma and severe COPD.
People with rare diseases and inborn errors of metabolism that significantly increase the risk of infections (such as SCID, homozygous sickle cell).
People on immunosuppression therapies sufficient to significantly increase risk of infection.
Women who are pregnant with significant heart disease, congenital or acquired.

(Group 1 info here: www.gov.uk/government/publications/covid-19-guidance-on-social-distancing-and-for-vulnerable-people/guidance-on-social-distancing-for-everyone-in-the-uk-and-protecting-older-people-and-vulnerable-adults )

(Group 2 info here: www.gov.uk/government/publications/guidance-on-shielding-and-protecting-extremely-vulnerable-persons-from-covid-19/guidance-on-shielding-and-protecting-extremely-vulnerable-persons-from-covid-19#what-do-we-mean-by-extremely-vulnerable )

AmelieTaylor · 31/03/2020 10:21

Deadmansfood
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Major sensory food issues will go out of the window along with woke eating when we all get hungry due to food shortages

So you’ve never had a child with SEN or a medical need to eat ‘woke’

Probably best to just fuck off then really.

DuLANGDuLANGDuLANG · 31/03/2020 10:24

Extremely Vulnerable people will only be on the supermarket priority delivery database if they filled out the online form mentioned in the letter they received

I don’t know about priority for the wider vulnerable group (ie, over 70 but no known underlying health conditions) as we aren’t in that one. Our EVP is only 8 years old!

Can try and find out more if required.

DuLANGDuLANGDuLANG · 31/03/2020 10:30

Agree, Amelie!

I know some autistic kids who will make themselves really ill rather than eat a food outside of their acceptable group, sometimes over a seemingly small difference, such as brand. Those kinds of issues should have been included in the priority shopping group. It’s not a choice.

Our council leader was out buying a particular frozen potato product for a kid in our borough the other day - would encourage anyone who is encountering problems of this kind to contact their local councillors (and escalate to MPs) and ask for assistance to be made shopping priority in some way. Don’t expect many other council leaders to go shopping on their own break, but they should be able to help in a less direct way.

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