This is a medium to long term thing. There is little chance that anything is going to change for the next 3 months, we all wish it would but we have to be realistic. We are still in the early days of this pandemic the spread is still moving out from Wuhan and then the other major cities.
We are 3 weeks behind Italy and there is a 14 day incubation period with about 7 days to the serious part - the extremely sick then either resolve one way or the other - recover or die. There is scope for the illness to continue after this for a while.
This means we are presently seeing people who picked up the virus in mid to end of February. This is why the PEAK is estimated to be in the summer end May- June or July. That is based upon there being a reduction due to warmer temp and more light as UV light kills viruses. IT will then return after the summer likely in the winter.
We need to be realistic and make long term plans for our own sake. There will be a situation where if we don't things may get even worse. Children need exercise and daily routines, so do we, lockdowns have an effect on our social well being - as a result, the stresses will go up as well as depression. We have to adjust to a social life for a period which has been totally different to that we have had in our life before. No contact with others than our immediate household for a long time possibly a couple of months or more. This can have serious consequences on mental health for both our children and us. I already know people who are going stir crazy and those that are petrified of going out.
This is one of the reasons the govt has made provisions for exercise and we need to take advantage of it. We need to ensure our children go out but they cannot go out as they used to and meet their friends they can't play football with others down the park etc. Their best friends have become their families, this places strain on both the children in varying ways dependant on their ages and us their parents.
Plus, you think we are scared the adults, our children will also start understanding what is going on. They too will find it hard, they will need more comfort and reassurance and they don't ask for this in straightforward ways because they have never had this situation before. Stress and these situations make us snap and be distant and reach the end of our tether because fear and the unknown is taking over in our minds. Remember this as sometimes the strength you need to keep going comes from protecting your kids.