I think its unfair to say parents need to just enjoy the time with the kids and they have plenty of time.
It's a massive disruption in their lives. It's not just about catching up at school. It's about they months ahead for them. Being in the house. No friends. No family apart from who they live with. No days out. No activities. No real opportunities to excercise. No routine. No real support with work. Unable to do simple things like get a hair cut, get an appointment,go to a shop, buy clothes, visit Grandparents, enjoy birthdays, Easter etc. No normal summer activities like playing with friends, going swimming, going down the park.
It's NOT healthy to stay indoors.
It's NOT healthy to not mix.
It's NOT healthy for them to not burn off energy and keep their minds busy.
Most of all it's not good for young people to grow up in such a strange, uncertain time. We might not mean to put any of it on their shoulders but we are going to change their way of thinking. Young children have got to process why suddenly everything is a no. When they get a cold they will be overthinking the germs and if they are safe. We are now telling them we can't go to the park on this sunny day. It's not a nice experience for them. Luckily at the moment it may feel relaxing and fun for them. But in a month I'm sure they will all be feeling abit out of it. Bored and craving social interaction.
Same for teenagers. They are older enough to understand coronavirus. But they are going to be climbing the walls in a few weeks. They don't play with toys anymore so to keep occupied you are talking about screens! Again really unhealthy. They need to be out. .
Yes we have to go through this. We have no choice. It's serious. But this isn't just parents not appreciating the bonding time.