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AIBU to despair about the amount of posters who already think the rules don’t apply to them?

406 replies

Dennisreynoldsduster · 23/03/2020 23:35

How can anyone look At what is happening around the world and still think it’s okay to go to their holiday rental/get their nails done etc?
I don’t know whether some posters are deliberately obtuse or genuinely don’t understand (not sure how much clearer Boris could have made it tbh) but I’m actually more scared now than I have been previously due to some of the posts on here tonight

We’ve got no hope have we?

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TheProdigalKittensReturn · 24/03/2020 09:46

Can we not make this a red versus blue thing? Everyone can get back to scoring petty political points against the opposition once the virus is under control.

caringcarer · 24/03/2020 09:48

Stay at home. What is unclear ffs? I won't even be going out to exercise as I can use exercise bike indoors. Son will walk small dog once a day. It can go out in garden too. Food will be delivered by Morrisons. Medication collected whilst walking dog. Not hard is it? Just stay in and don't make police job any harder. Just gutted that son still has to work driving to deliver food to shops. He would prefer to be home if his job was not vital.

Duchessofblandings · 24/03/2020 09:51

TheProdigalKittensReturn

Can we not make this a red versus blue thing? Everyone can get back to scoring petty political points against the opposition once the virus is under control.“

Today Programme was trying to make this political all morning. Incredibly distasteful in the circumstances.

Gmom · 24/03/2020 09:52

Here’s an example. The country is meant to be in lockdown to saves lives and NHS workers’ health and well-being and my next door neighbour's troupe of builders are drilling and hammering away this morning like going to work today is reasonable. It’s mainly a nightmare for us all being home trying to work and study with the sounds and vibrations but it is also unethical of the building firm and the client to have them working.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 24/03/2020 09:58

alloutoffucks, yes, there are some scared people. I would say that most people are scared. I have my moments too, many of them, where I wonder where this will end and what damage will have been wrought. It is a global crisis and there is scant knowledge of this particular virus.

BUT, we have scientists working, medical teams working, and the vast majority of the public willing them on and wanting a solution found.

What we also have though - on par with any amount of damaging red-top nonsense - is a social media problem. Mumsnet is part of that now. You only have to read the posts on this thread, the posters referring to 'thick', 'uneducated', 'stupid' people who have dared to post any question. The questions aren't actually pointless, there are nuances worthy of discussion even if the net answer is the same, "No, we can't do that now". 'Public gatherings of more than 2 will be dispersed". What if that crowd is a family of 5 who live together? What's the point? That's worthy of a question - and a thought-through, civil response.

If we don't want to bother ourselves to reply, we needn't. Why do we need to call people names? I've seen plenty of this, across the board.

Not everybody feels able to stand up for themselves when they're confronted on this board. That doesn't give posters 'jugular rights'.

I question why threads about the virus are posted on AIBU rather than the CV board but I know why - drama and audience. It was the same with Brexit, the same with flooding and the same posters who fall over themselves to find like-minded 'chums' to post some really nasty responses whenever they can. It's completely unnecessary and achieves nothing other than to give the thigh-rubbers a little thrill. For them, it's all about the drama.

I would love it if MNHQ would suspend the name-change facility for a while too... and 'outed' the posters in their usual 'naice' usernames so that we could all see who we've really been posting alongside.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 24/03/2020 09:59

Bloody hell, that was long, sorry.

Micaela64 · 24/03/2020 09:59

If he had gone into detail about all the different key workers and children of divorced parents etc people would be saying it was too rambly and the message was lost etc... Boris just can't win with some people... But it's time to leave politics behind now and focus on doing the right thing and spreading the message around, not being pedantic over this and that word and sowing confusion.

Casino218 · 24/03/2020 10:12

Neighbours kids out playing in the street. The boy has autism and guess they are struggling. It's so bloody difficult isn't it?

PepePig · 24/03/2020 10:14

It's ridiculous. Also ridiculous the number of people who couldn't be arsed watching the announcement last night. Unless you were working in a key role, what honestly would be more important?

I have no issue in calling people thick and stupid. Because they are. It takes no effort to listen to the PM and listen to what he's saying. I've already had instances of trying to explain to middle aged adults what was said and re-explaining that no, that doesn't mean I can go see you. No, it doesn't mean you can do x.

It really isn't difficult. People are being deliberately obtuse because, to put it bluntly, they value themselves over everyone else, including those in their immediate family.

Countless threads tonight and today about absolutely stupid shit like cutting someone's grass? Honestly. I didn't realise that overgrown grass suddenly became an emergency as soon as an announcement was made. In fact, I'd happily put money on the fact that lawn wouldn't be cut for another month if this wasn't going on. But suddenly, now, it's an issue.

I despair. But I'm not going to sit and not call out people for being irresponsible wankers. Clearly, a polite speech doesn't get into someone's head... maybe being called names might work, instead.

Honestly, the sooner all non key work is closed down and no exercise is permitted, the better. People are too fucking selfish, and until Boris literally locks people in their homes, most of the population aren't going to get it.

notimagain · 24/03/2020 10:15

If people with English as a first language fail to understand the concept of "stay at home" then there is no hope..

As for people simply having to drive X km because they must exercise...

www.rte.ie/news/coronavirus/2020/0322/1124727-man-runs-marathon-on-balcony-covid-19/

But I guess that can't be done "here".........

BelleharePenguin09 · 24/03/2020 10:20

No exceptions. What more does the Prime Minister have to say? Words fail.

Haffiana · 24/03/2020 10:21

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe Well said. Very well said.

So many posts from the newly self-appointed Lockdown Police telling other people what to do, and telling them off for trying to get some support and help. You are afraid - it won't help to blame everyone else for your inability to to process a complicated situation. It isn't black and white. People need to be intelligent and discover intelligent ways of managing, not listen to your unthinking, incorrect rules and slogans.

If you think that you alone understand the exact situation for 60 million other people in the UK, if you think it is 'obvious', if you think that everyone else is getting it wrong - then you are probably just a bit simple or an intolerant bigot. Or virtue signalling. Or all of those.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 24/03/2020 10:22

Today Programme was trying to make this political all morning. Incredibly distasteful in the circumstances.

Glad I didn't see that, would have been tempted to chuck things at the TV.

Amanduh · 24/03/2020 10:22

How ANYONE can say he was wishy washy last night is fucking beyond me. He said DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE EXCEPT FOR MINIMAL TIME GETTING FOOD AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE, medicine, or to go to work if absolutely completely unavoidable and necessary. Or to exercise alone. Do not meet family. Do not meet friends. Do not socialise. Do not go anywhere else!

How much fucking clearer can it be!?

alloutoffucks · 24/03/2020 10:24

Because lots of people clearly don't understand, that is how. So who has to travel to go to work?

alloutoffucks · 24/03/2020 10:28

@caringcarer I am taking the same approach, although online delivery slots are rarer than hen's teeth.

woodhill · 24/03/2020 10:29

I think it is common sense to minimise contact. It is upsetting and difficult but we all have to be sensible.

People mixing more than stipulated will have an impact on others & prolong the situation.

Lifeisgenerallyfun · 24/03/2020 10:29

The mistake Boris has made here is thinking that there isn’t a large proportion of the UK population who cannot think for themselves, act with common sense, understand the difference between needs and wants and have no basic understanding of living in a society.

It should have been enough after his first speech when he basically said we need to keep away from each other to stop hundreds of thousands dying for everyone to do what they have been forced to do now.

Instead we get a cunt queue training up Snowdonia practically doing the fucking conga.

Parents taking their kids out to climb over play equipment with strange kids

People with presumably the priorities of a Love Island contestant and IQ of Barbie posting on Facebook asking whether any hairdresser will come to their house as they NEED their hair cut, presumably for their last hurrah at Nando’s.

I’ve said it before and I will say it again this pandemic has shown the what a large proportion of British Society has become, followers of the religion of self worshipping the Gods of aesthetics and consumerism

GlummyMcGlummerson · 24/03/2020 10:36

I thought the country being on lockdown would make me feel better.

I feel worse.

The amount of utter fuckwits who are not in the least bit willing to make changes to their life is tweeting. Since the PM announcement I have seen on social media:

  • Someone saying her mum is still coming round to drop her son's birthday present off on Thursday
  • women saying their OH can't do the food shop because he wouldn't know what to get so they're going and taking the kids (that he can't look after of course he's useless)
  • someone who sent the kids to their dads 3 hours away at the weekend and HAS to have them back with her, despite the fact they're safe and she'd have to travel on 5 different busses and trains to get there and back
  • people going to work at a school because they HAVE to get a letter to parents out about the summer fete, it can't possibly be postponed or email to them.

When I challenged one person on social media last night, on a parenting group, I had 10 women asking me if I was sucking Boris Johnson off or something Hmm they think it's funny, a game.

We are so fucking screwed. Every single person in the country has to make changes. Don't like it? Tough shit

GlummyMcGlummerson · 24/03/2020 10:36

Tweeting? Alarming!

playthestation · 24/03/2020 10:37

Instead we get a cunt queue training up Snowdonia practically doing the fucking conga.

Grin
playthestation · 24/03/2020 10:39

When I challenged one person on social media last night, on a parenting group, I had 10 women asking me if I was sucking Boris Johnson off or something they think it's funny, a game

It's been a right eye opener for people realising their friends are dimwitted cuntfucks, hasn't it?

People I thought to be reasonably intelligent are showing themselves up to be moronic idiots.

Patch23042 · 24/03/2020 10:41

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GlummyMcGlummerson · 24/03/2020 10:41

@playthestation yep, I did point out that if this is some divine survival of the fittest exercise then they're all completely fucked

LakieLady · 24/03/2020 10:46

The latest news bulletin has just said that there are an awful lot of people out and about in Croydon.

DP and I come from Croydon. Believe me, there is little worth being out about for in Croydon at the best of times, but at the moment? Madness.