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AIBU?

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To use their toilet when I’m cleaning?

130 replies

Hoohaahoo · 29/02/2020 19:22

I’m a cleaner and often have very full days where I am going from house to house with no break.
I try to keep hydrated but this means I have to use my clients toilet sometimes. I try and use it and then clean it after.

Would you be annoyed by this? Would you want asking first?

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Thisismytimetoshine · 29/02/2020 19:41

What makes you ask, op?

minipie · 29/02/2020 19:43

Oh I see - they were in the house. Yes I can see why that might make you feel awkward but I still think it’s fine.

whyamidoingthis · 29/02/2020 19:44

I assume my cleaner uses the toilet. I expect most people would assume the same.

Hoohaahoo · 29/02/2020 19:45

I used the toilet at a clients house and they were stood outside when I came out. Eyebrows firmly raised but they didn’t say anything about it.

It’s played on my mind all day. This client is quite fussy in general though.
I feel a bit more at ease now, thank you. Was worried I’d be been really disrespectful in the past!

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Somanysocks · 29/02/2020 19:46

It's only builders that are not allowed to use the loo in someone's house. Wink

Dylaninthemovies1 · 29/02/2020 19:46

I’d be more annoyed if a cleaner was not comfortable to use my toilet to be honest

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 29/02/2020 19:47

Who voted YABU and why?!

cstaff · 29/02/2020 19:48

And if anyone if going to leave the loo in good nick it is going to be you.

winniethekid · 29/02/2020 19:48

Of course you are not being unreasonable, you're the one cleaning it for them.

Straycatstrut · 29/02/2020 19:49

I think if the houseowners were in I'd ask just to avoid any awkwardness. I think it's polite to always ask when it's someone elses house.

Iwantacookie · 29/02/2020 19:49

Long as you clean it after you've used it crack on

Itwasntme1 · 29/02/2020 19:50

I would be horrified if my cleaner thought she couldn’t pee in my house, or get a drink.

TheCanyon · 29/02/2020 19:52

I'd let anyone have a pee if they needed to like the postie, delivery driver etc nevermind someone actually working in my house. Odd that they would be so weird about it

Mummyoflittledragon · 29/02/2020 19:52

Really?? That’s odd. I have a cleaner. It wouldn’t have occurred to me to be precious about the loo that they’re cleaning for me... that would make me feel inferior if I were in your position.

pigsDOfly · 29/02/2020 19:53

What do they expect you to do, go and pee in the garden?

Having said that, in your position I would confine my usage to the general downstairs loo, rather than using the loo in their bathroom or en suite.

user32564567 · 29/02/2020 19:57

Yes, know your place and use the tradesmans loo.

Tiredmum100 · 29/02/2020 19:57

I can't see why they would mind you using their toilet. I certainly wouldn't! I work as a community nurse and have on occasion used a patients toilet.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 29/02/2020 19:59

Shock Was it Hilly from The Help?

kazaroo0 · 29/02/2020 20:02

As your employer surely it's their responsibility to provide you with welfare facilities such as toilets!

LaLaLandIsNoFun · 29/02/2020 20:04

Anyone who would have a problem with this does not need to be your client.

GoatyGoatyMingeMinge · 29/02/2020 20:05

What sort of weirdo would have a problem with their cleaner using their loo for it's designated purpose.

Maybe you're new around these parts Grin

Squirrelpeanutbutter · 29/02/2020 20:06

I can't actually believe anyone would be unhappy about this.

Hoohaahoo · 29/02/2020 20:08

You would be surprised at some people and what they expect from a cleaner squirrel. It’s been eye opening for me anyway.
Most people are lovely but you do get the odd few that really look down on you.

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RUOKHon · 29/02/2020 20:08

Your client sounds like an uptight weirdo.

PointeShoesandTutus · 29/02/2020 20:11

If you are our cleaner - please please use it if you need it! I’d hate to think of anyone being close to a working toilet but feeling unable to use it!