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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
Canshopwillshop · 24/02/2020 16:08

@gojettergirl - please do keep posting if it’s helping you in even the smallest way. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and will check In on you both and try to support as much as I can.

Watermelontea · 24/02/2020 16:13

We’re all here for him, and for you. Flowers

Baboutheocelot · 24/02/2020 16:13

I know we don’t know each other but I’m sending lots of love and strength your way. I’m so sorry.

Hollywhiskey · 24/02/2020 16:15

He sounds so lovely. I can't imagine what you're going through. Handhold from me 💐

daisyswirl · 24/02/2020 16:16

I know we are strangers to each other but I send you all my love and thoughts...and the strongest handhold ever. I'm so sorry..your son sounds like an adorable loving little boy. ❤

PenguinsOnParade · 24/02/2020 16:23

Thanks and a huge handhold from me OP. Your DS sounds like the most delightful little boy and I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending love.

fleapriest · 24/02/2020 16:24

Handhold from me op, you both sound absolutely amazing.

Cannot even imagine how strong you must be. Thinking if you both, I really mean that.
Thanks

GinDrinker00 · 24/02/2020 16:26

Oh he sounds like such a wonderful brave little boy. How heart breaking, here to hold your hand OP. Flowers

GeraltOfRivia · 24/02/2020 16:26

Yes. Your mummy friends all have your back, both of you, and will be here as long as you need us x

Rainbowqueeen · 24/02/2020 16:29

Handholding from Australia.

Wishing I could wrap my arms around the pair of you

pinkstar01 · 24/02/2020 16:30

Thinking of you and your beautiful boy, sending you strength, love, and prayers...I can't imagine how you must be feeling Thanks

Sammi38 · 24/02/2020 16:32

He sounds a wonderful, caring and amazing boy, you must be be very proud. Giving you the biggest hand hold, you are being amazing and strong.

Kelsoooo · 24/02/2020 16:34

How has this afternoon been GoJetter? Did you find any light in this dark time?

UterusesBeforeDuderuses · 24/02/2020 16:35

Thinking of you and your special boy. You're both so brave Thanks

Kanga83 · 24/02/2020 16:41

Oh my heart, a virtual handhold from here. Your little boy sounds like an utter delight. I too have a 7 year old and I cannot imagine the pain and strength you are going through right now. I hope this is not out of turn but one of my favourite quotes is 'maybe they are not stars, but openings from heaven from our loved ones telling us they are happy'. It's always comforted me during grief.

walkingongreyclouds · 24/02/2020 16:46

Another handhold over here OP Flowers

runwithme · 24/02/2020 16:47

You are in my thoughts. GoJetterBoy knows his mum loves him deeply xx

Ostagazuzulum · 24/02/2020 16:49

Another handhold here. There's no words I can say but my heart breaks for you and your family xxxx

GracieLouFreebushh · 24/02/2020 16:53

I am so sorry that you are going through this. It literally hurts my heart to think of a mam losing their little boy at such a young age. I am so sorry. Little star Star he is, thinking of you at this time and listening to your messages. Tell him everything you've ever wanted to say ThanksThanks

WitchDancer · 24/02/2020 16:56

Another hand here for you to hold, however long you need it for 🤝

DragonMamma · 24/02/2020 16:57

I can’t imagine what this must be like. I feel winded at the thought of how desperate you just be feeling OP.

GoJetterBoy sounds like a special little boy.

Sending strength for the hours ahead.

Cancer is a twat (don’t read him that Smile)

Flowers
drippingwet · 24/02/2020 16:57

Sending you both a huge virtual hug. You both sound wonderful

Cliffdonville · 24/02/2020 16:57

Sending you and your beautiful son so much love x x

neverdoingthatagain100 · 24/02/2020 16:58

Sending a handhold and a big hug xxx

ChittyChittyBoomBoom · 24/02/2020 16:58

How desperately sad. My thoughts and love are with you all xxxx