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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
Starburst8 · 25/02/2020 19:04

So sorry for your lost 💙 He sounded like a wonderful little boy. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family 💐💙

vampirethriller · 25/02/2020 19:09

I'm so very very sorryFlowers

SomethingBlue22 · 25/02/2020 19:09

There aren't sufficient words to cover it but I can sense the genuine sorrow that I feel for you echoed in all the posts I've read.

He sounds like a very loved and very lovely boy, much deserving of such a lovely sounding mum.

I hope you get strength from those around you and from the love that is directed your way from all us here.

I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers

caffeinefix · 25/02/2020 19:13

I have no words, OP but wanted to send you all my love. Your lovely little boy sounds truly tremendous. Thanks

turnthebiglightoff · 25/02/2020 19:13

Fly high, little one. You will always be a wonder to the world.

We are all sending you love and strength @GoJetterGirl . I am so, so sorry. Xx

Brokenflipflop · 25/02/2020 19:13

I'm so so sorry for you all. He sounded like an absolute star 🌟. May he rest in peace x

glitteryboots · 25/02/2020 19:14

I don't know what to say but my thoughts are with you xxx

Krouse64 · 25/02/2020 19:15

Sending you love and prayers. So sorry for your lossFlowers

0hT00dles · 25/02/2020 19:15

I am so sorry for your loss. He'll be shining bright tonight as he truly sounded like a star.

Look after yourself, and let others look after you now. Thoughts and prayers with you all x

sweeneytoddsrazor · 25/02/2020 19:17

So so sorry for your devastating loss. Flowers

BumbleBeeFlower · 25/02/2020 19:19

So sorry to read this. You have been so incredibly brave and strong for your son. Hugs and prayers to you and your family at this tough time xxx

youwouldthink · 25/02/2020 19:19

I've come back and forward to your thread over the last couple of days wondering what to say.

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy xxx

Today would have been my DS 17th birthday, we lost him at 8 weeks and like you held and loved him until the last breath.

I just wanted to say your little boy will pull you through. He'll get you through the anger that this world could be so cruel, the despair and loss and oh God the ache in your heart of not having him to hold.
Because one thing that is so very true is that love is so much stronger than death. It will carry you.

He will beat with your heart. He will send you memories. At first the memories will hurt like hell but I promise they will turn into the most beautiful and treasured things.

Be kind to yourself. Its ok to cry, scream, feel numb, angry. Take the kindness offered when you can.

My heart goes out to you. My prayers will be with you and your family xxx

Bigsighall · 25/02/2020 19:20

So sorry for your loss. Love to you and your family.
RIP little man xx

Snoopdogsbitch · 25/02/2020 19:22

Oh OP I've just read your post and sending my love and strength. I lost my dad 2 weeks ago to the shitty disease that is cancer, but that won't compare to the pain you're in. Go gently, little one x

fleapriest · 25/02/2020 19:22

So sorry op, still thinking of you.
I read 'I love you forever' to my ds today and held him a little closer because of you

I'm sure gojetter boy is happy and at peace
Xxxxx

Wigglewaggle01 · 25/02/2020 19:24

I'm so very sorry OP Flowers sending love xx

crispysausagerolls · 25/02/2020 19:26

I am so sorry for your loss

Trees2905 · 25/02/2020 19:26

I’m so sorry, tears here, sending love from someone who doesn’t know you but wishes they did xx

Since2016 · 25/02/2020 19:28

I’ve just come across this thread. What a wonderful little boy he sounds like, and what a fantastic mother you are. I can’t imagine how you must be feeling but I hope his star shines brightly for you all xxx

Hightechlowbudget · 25/02/2020 19:28

I'm so sorry for your loss. Words fail me, so hard, so unfair.

ArthurShelbysTash · 25/02/2020 19:28

My thoughts are with you @GoJetterGirl. There are not words, it's just shit. I'm so sorry for you all.

Timepasses · 25/02/2020 19:29

I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words. Sending you strength and love. Please know that I have been thinking of you all day. Thanks

badrighthip · 25/02/2020 19:30

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending love to you and your beautiful boy. Go Jetters! Xxx

PickUpThePieces · 25/02/2020 19:34

Thinking of your beautiful boy, you and your family.
My heart goes out to you all.

MagicalKingdom · 25/02/2020 19:35

I am so sorry for your loss 💙
No words of mine could ever possibly bring you comfort at this time, but please know that you and your little boy and family are in all my thoughts and prayers. I can’t imagine what you are going through, and I hope you find peace through this awful pain x