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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
Catapillarsruletheworld · 25/02/2020 18:45

I’m so very sorry. Flowers

Doodlesquah1 · 25/02/2020 18:46

This thread has given me goosebumps and a newfound determination to live life to the full- your dear boy may not be here anymore but his short life has impacted and motivated people he didn’t even know.
Wishing you all the love and support you need at this painful time. Your DS will always be with you OP and one day you will meet again FlowersFlowers

ellendegeneres · 25/02/2020 18:47

Oh @GoJetterGirl I genuinely threw up in my mouth reading that.

I am so sorry for the heartbreaking cruelty of loss and grief. Words can’t describe my sadness for you right now.

Thank you for sharing his story. For letting us into your world and sharing about GoJetterBoy. For allowing us the honour and privilege of being with you for this most heartbreaking of times.

I never do this, but tonight I will be lighting a candle for your family. All of my love xx

Userpompom · 25/02/2020 18:48

I'm so sorry for your loss sending lots of love. I'm bawling right now. I can't imagine the pain you're feeling. Thinking of you and your family Flowers

Userpompom · 25/02/2020 18:49

@Doodlesquah1 you're so right about living life to the full when others didn't have the chance.

twinklesunshine · 25/02/2020 18:50

I’m so very sorry. My son died when he was 3 a few years ago, and I also feel like he was too special to stay with me. I got to have him for 3 years and was so lucky, he was amazing. Your little boy sounds the same. I will be thinking of him xx

Kanga83 · 25/02/2020 18:51

We have also lit a candle and I sang Over the Rainbow as the bedtime song to mine tonight to honour him. I can't imagine what you are going through but know that there are many, many of us thinking of you x

ooonicorn · 25/02/2020 18:51

I'm so sorry for you. Sending love 💗

Geminijes · 25/02/2020 18:52

I'm so very sorry.

I wish there was something we could do or say to take away the pain for you...Thinking of you and your family xxx

Alone07 · 25/02/2020 18:52

I am so so sorry, your son sounds like an absolutely beautiful and precious boy.
I am thinking of you and all your loved ones Flowers

peacebypeace · 25/02/2020 18:52

I am so sorry OP. Gojetterboy sounds like the most beautiful soul. Sending love to you and your family. Flowers

wheresthehope · 25/02/2020 18:53

I am so sorry 💙
Will light a candle for your beautiful little boy and for all the other beautiful children taken to soon

Crystal87 · 25/02/2020 18:53

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your pain but I hope somehow you find some strength xx

KedsAndTubeSocks · 25/02/2020 18:54

🕯️

GiveHerHellFromUs · 25/02/2020 18:54

Oh bless you OP. I am so, so sorry. You have hundreds of friends here. He knows you're surrounded by lovely people and he will never leave your side. You're the best mummy he could have wished for Thanks

RhitaGawr · 25/02/2020 18:55

There are no words @GoJetterGirl except love and strength to you and your family. Hold those precious memories close ❤️

Rainbowqueeen · 25/02/2020 18:57

There are no words

Much love to your special little family.

Thescrewinthetuna · 25/02/2020 18:57

Love to you ❤️

toomuchtooold · 25/02/2020 18:57

I'm so sorry gojettergirl. You did everything you could for him, and his life was filled with happiness and love. Nothing can hurt him now.

LondonernotinLondon · 25/02/2020 18:58

I'm so sorry for your loss Thanks
I'm so glad that you shared your story. Your little boy can rest knowing that his no 1 fans were by his side until the very end. His heart is in your heart forever 💙💖

Nicecupofcoco · 25/02/2020 18:58

@GoJetterGirl I'm so sorry. Thinking of you at such a sad time. We are always here to listen. Flowers

Strandliv · 25/02/2020 19:00

I have no words, there are no words. I am so, so very sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

wheeltrims · 25/02/2020 19:00

I'm so so sorry for your loss, what a wonderful boy he was, thinking of you very much this evening Thanks

shuttheblinds · 25/02/2020 19:03

I am so sorry for your devastating loss of your special boy GoJetterGirl.

GoJetterBoy sounds a wonderful boy, what an amazing, strong fighter. My heart goes out to you. Sending love and strength to you.

Greymalkin12 · 25/02/2020 19:04

So very sorry for your loss xx