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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
Callistone · 25/02/2020 19:37

Words seem so meaningless right now, but I am so deeply sorry for your loss xx

user1498572889 · 25/02/2020 19:37

So sad for your loss of your wonderful son. 💔

ploddingdonkey · 25/02/2020 19:37

Truly so very sorry for the loss of your wonderful boy.

Fretfulparent · 25/02/2020 19:38

Sending sincere condolences and wishing you the strength and energy to keep going. 💐

HaddawayAndShite · 25/02/2020 19:38

Oh my lovely. I just found this thread and smiled at everything you said about your precious little lad. He sounds amazing. I'm so sorry for everything you have gone through. Sending all my love to you and your family Flowers.

Yiayoula · 25/02/2020 19:45

Thinking of you and your family tonight.
I’m so, so sorry for your loss . Fly high, beautiful brown- eyed boy. 💐 xxx

GenuineKlatchianPottery · 25/02/2020 19:52

I’m so so sorry for your loss @GoJetterGirl.
Much love to you and your family Flowers

Peanutbutterbean · 25/02/2020 19:53

I’m so sorry for the loss of your amazing son. My thoughts are with you and your family and friends. Flowers xx

Skierrdery · 25/02/2020 19:53

I am so utterly sorry to hear of your heartbreaking loss. I hope your little lad is up there annoying Einstein with questions now. Meanwhile, I hope that you are wrapped in love and all your family too. He did in fact sound too good for this earth.

RaininSummer · 25/02/2020 19:57

Very very sorry to read your update OP. X

redastherose · 25/02/2020 20:01

So sorry for your loss @GoJettaGirl your lovely DS is in heaven now looking down on you. Sending all my love in you time of loss. Thanks

MinesaPinot · 25/02/2020 20:03

On my lovely I am so sorry for your loss. I've been thinking of you all day and just checked in to see if there was any news. Your grief must be unimaginable but please be comforted to know that he passed surrounded with love not only from you, his dad and his nurse but from all of us on MN xxx

BoneAppleTeaa · 25/02/2020 20:04

I’m so sorry, your brave little boy. Sending love.

dazzlingdeborahrose · 25/02/2020 20:04

I'm so very sorry for your loss.
I will light a candle and say a prayer for you, your family and your son tonight.

DuggeeHugs · 25/02/2020 20:05

So very sorry for the loss of your son GoJetterGirl - sending the most unmumsnetty of hugs Flowers

Goodnight, GoJetterBoy 🚀

Chinks123 · 25/02/2020 20:06

My thoughts are with you. That’s something we see written a lot when someone passes, but I can tell just by reading this thread that this is genuinely true for you and your family. Hundreds of people are thinking of you, and your little boy right now. I have no idea who you are, but you painted such a vivid picture of your son in your posts. I’m sorry there is nothing I can say, but just wanted you to know you sound like an amazing mother and I can tell how loved he was, and will be forever. If strangers on the internet can tell, your ds must surely have felt so so loved,
Flowers so sorry op

Heihei · 25/02/2020 20:10

So, so sorry xx

NoParticularPattern · 25/02/2020 20:13

Have thought about you and your boy all day today OP. I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Fly high GoJetterBoy, see you on the other side 💕

rumandbiscuits · 25/02/2020 20:18

I am so so sorry for your loss OP. No parent should ever have to go through what you have been. Your LB sounded like an earth angel to me and as you said in a pp too good for this earth. I know you are in pieces right now but I hope you can find peace one day soon and know that he was so lucky to have a mummy like you and will be by your side offering you strength when you most need it forever. I will say a pray for him and your family tonight ❤️

BoreOfWhabylon · 25/02/2020 20:21

I'm so very sorry Flowers. What an amazing mum you are. What an amazing boy you raised.

Fly high, brown eyed boy. Look down on Stonehenge in the dawn and then up, up into the stars.

Forever young.

Luckypoppy · 25/02/2020 20:21

Sending love, prayers and strength. X

iamruth · 25/02/2020 20:22

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss, your love for him so obviously shone through your posts, both you and he have obviously touched so many people. Hold on tight to each other until you meet again xxx

Beetlebum1981 · 25/02/2020 20:23

I just found this thread, your DS sounded so wonderful. Sending you strength and peace to get through the coming days, weeks and months Thanks

Sparklypurpleunicornsaremyfav · 25/02/2020 20:26

I'm so very very sorry. I've no words of comfort, I can't even begin to comprehend how you and your family are feeling. I just hope you take peace that your beautiful boy is no longer in pain and is with previously passed loved ones, he will forever be with you.
Biggest love to you all xxxx

Bluebuddha10 · 25/02/2020 20:26

So sorry for your loss. Life can be so cruel xxx