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To stop paying for after-school care at age 10

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hibbledobble · 23/02/2020 08:59

Childcare is an absolute nightmare for me, and eye wateringly expensive. Current arrangement of having an au pair for school collections will no longer be an option soon due to leaving the EU, and no planned visa scheme for unskilled workers.

Nannies would be more than I earn, and also only tend to want full time hours. (I am a junior doctor, but earn less than London nanny wages)

The school's ASC is also pretty dire. Shouting at children, forcing them to sit in silence etc, then just penning them in, with no planned activities.

Wibu to allow oldest child to walk home alone aged 10? She is independent and street wise. Younger children would be cared for at nursery, but she is too old for this.

OP posts:
flirtygirl · 25/02/2020 21:10

I looked after my friends children for years. If I didn't want the Haswell of. Tax. Then they could go buy my shopping. So I gift in kind for babysitting.
Just find someone you trust op if you go down this route. Or look into uk based au pairs, students and others that may want a reduced cost room. Just vet them.

I'm surprised more uk based people don't become an pairs as better than being unemployed and homeless.

flirtygirl · 25/02/2020 21:50

That should say

I looked after my friends children for years and If I didn't want the hassle of sorting tax then they could go buy my shopping etc for me. So a gift in kind for babysitting.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 26/02/2020 07:10

I'm surprised more uk based people don't become an pairs as better than being unemployed and homeless

How much do people pay them and for how
Many hours (if decent employers !)

Said that whilst I have huge compassion for our local homeless I don’t think they quite fit my profile for an au pair !!!! Grin

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