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to not like it when people say hiya

198 replies

User472262 · 19/02/2020 16:15

I just don’t get the purpose of it’s much more formal and polite to say hello or even hi.

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EntropyRising · 19/02/2020 16:16

I don't particularly like it, but I guess it takes all kinds.

BritneyPeedOnALadybug · 19/02/2020 16:17

Hiya, OP!

Yes, YABU.

WhatALearningCurve · 19/02/2020 16:18

Surely it depends on the context of when it's used?

AryaStarkWolf · 19/02/2020 16:18

Why do you need people to be formal when they're saying hello to you? I say hiya all the time. sorry not sorry

ToastyFingers · 19/02/2020 16:18

It's pretty common here in Wales. 'hello' is usually saved for relatively formal dialogue.

FizzyIce · 19/02/2020 16:19

Really? Yabu .. I really don’t pay attention to people’s greetings unless it’s something like “alright dick ’ed!” Then I wouldn’t be best pleased

Love51 · 19/02/2020 16:21

My 6 year old greets me 'eh up mummy'. By his standards 'hiya' would be close to RP.
I think the informality of 'hiya' is the point of it. I wouldn't use it in a job interview, but bumping into a friend at the shop? 'Hiya' seems perfect for that!

grannycake · 19/02/2020 16:22

Definitely a Welsh thing - I say it

Bella2020 · 19/02/2020 16:22

Where I come from we don't even pronounce the 'h' so we say 'iya.' That would probably naff you off even more. I suggest you stay away from north east England.

Yes, YABU.

AryaStarkWolf · 19/02/2020 16:22

My 6 year old greets me 'eh up mummy'. By his standards 'hiya' would be close to RP.

bahahahaha, very cute though Grin

bank100 · 19/02/2020 16:23

Over here rolling my eyes.
Yes YABU.

AryaStarkWolf · 19/02/2020 16:24

Definitely a Welsh thing - I say it

We say it loads in Ireland too (although now all I can hear in my head is Welsh accented Hiya)

TheVanguardSix · 19/02/2020 16:24

I'm not from the UK originally. But 'hiya' always rubs me the wrong way here in London. It really makes me grind my teeth when DS's teacher writes 'Hiya' at the top of emails for the parents (re: school trips, etc.). But I am aware that I'm probably being a bit unreasonable and weird about something very trivial.

ParkheadParadise · 19/02/2020 16:25

My 4 year old says Hiya to everyone we meet.

TheVanguardSix · 19/02/2020 16:25

My 6 year old greets me 'eh up mummy'.

I LOVE this. Grin

Nowayorhighway · 19/02/2020 16:25

Ha, I don’t like it either and always tried to discourage my DC from saying it.

lemontreebird · 19/02/2020 16:26

Ooh, I love 'eh up mummy'! That's really cute.

Isn't hiya just a local word? Completely inoffensive and actually very friendly sounding.

PorridgeAgainAbney · 19/02/2020 16:26

My late Dad, when greeted with "Hiya" by shop assistants would confuse them, every time, by replying "what is?" or "than what?" Grin

TrippingOnSunshine · 19/02/2020 16:27

Yabu.
Hiya is friendlier than Hi not as formal as hello but where I'm from the greeting of choice is 'alright?!' but confusingly for some that's not a question.

Lolimax · 19/02/2020 16:27

Hiya from Wales here too.

CheshireChat · 19/02/2020 16:27

Never go to Hull if you feel this way, OP.

And apparently Wales and Ireland are out of the question as well though I have no personal experience

10FrozenFingers · 19/02/2020 16:28

Hiya! Welsh, oh yes. What's occurring?

BelfastNonBlonde · 19/02/2020 16:29

I love Hiya

Hiyaaaaaa!

bingoitsadingo · 19/02/2020 16:30

YABU

The fact there are degrees of formality to Hello/Hi/Hiya is exactly why I use Hiya. Because sometimes I want to be informal.

Icecreamdiva · 19/02/2020 16:31

I always say it. I’m a friendly soul.