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to not like it when people say hiya

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User472262 · 19/02/2020 16:15

I just don’t get the purpose of it’s much more formal and polite to say hello or even hi.

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Darbs76 · 19/02/2020 21:35

I’m welsh and say it too. Not so much here in Surrey where I’ve lived for 20yrs but always to my friends in Wales

zukiecat · 19/02/2020 21:39

Hiya in North East Scotland too.

Or the usual Aberdeen greeting, Aye, Aye, fit like?

rosamacrose · 19/02/2020 22:14

' right?
The ' is represented by an almost imperceptible flick back of the head.
Smile

iklboo · 20/02/2020 08:04

I'm still not getting why you think a doctor's is a 'formal setting'.

FlowerArranger · 20/02/2020 08:13

It's much better than hey, which is hideous

YES!!!!

I like hiya. I'm a proper posh Londoner and I use it all the time...

I'm vaguely aware that there is a minority of people who perhaps don't like hiya. They're the ones who reply to my hiya with hi or hello. I'm not bothered Smile

Sonichu · 20/02/2020 13:35

"A doctor using it though - shocking. He was probably drunk"

??????

eenymeenyminyme · 20/02/2020 13:37

I say hiya mostly. Obviously not in a formal situation, but it's my default greeting.

No-one has ever objected so from my experience YABU

Bigmango · 20/02/2020 13:38

Never considered it is regional but I’m from the south west and we generally do a few Welshisms like lush. I definitely say hiya as do most of my friends. You’d hate us OP. On top of an email to parents though? Nope.

lazylinguist · 20/02/2020 13:43

What tosh. Firstly, "hi" isn't remotely formal. Secondly, "hiya" is not inherently impolite, it's just informal (like "hi" is, but maybe one little step more informal).

SueEllenMishke · 20/02/2020 13:48

Yet more people not understanding REGIONAL DIALECT!!!

Jeez it's getting ridiculous

Shinyletsbebadguys · 20/02/2020 13:53

Appledeapp really ? I'm going to use it more often if it annoys people over such a ridiculous thing.

OP are you my mother? Her bug bears are hiya , ok instead of alright (no idea about this one just a random decision) and it's great fun to watch her go purple with apoplectic rage if people use the word mate in her prescence .

She hasn't got many friends and most of her family avoid her...I wonder why?

Livpool · 20/02/2020 13:59

It's quite ubiquitous here in Merseyside - even from doctors 😱

PeterPanGoesWrong · 20/02/2020 14:04

Yabu. It’s just an expression,
Although I did old school ‘online dating’ when it relied on phone messages. I just scrolled passed every guy that opened his introduction with hi or hi ya. If they can’t use hello for an introduction, I wasn’t that interested.

My American friends think cheerio is an amazing alternative to goodbye, and they nearly wet themselves when someone said toodlepip! It takes all sorts.

potter5 · 20/02/2020 14:23

Wotcha cock.
London greeting!

FizzyIce · 20/02/2020 14:31

My dh and his brother always greet each other with “alright,cock?” We’re Londoners but they definitely mean it as an insult Grin

potter5 · 20/02/2020 14:37

Yes my dad used to say 'alright me old cock' when greeting male friends in London.

I use all sorts, hello, hi and hiya. A greeting is better than a grunt!

SVRT19674 · 20/02/2020 14:42

Non-issue. I would love to be you to be irked by such a non problem.
Oh, hiya! by the way.

Butchyrestingface · 20/02/2020 14:46

Where do you stand on HEYa, @User472262? This is what I say, and I’ve never been accused of being warm or friendly. Grin

Appledeapp · 20/02/2020 17:52

Thank you to the posters who have told me I am being silly to stop using hiya 😊 I have got over my shock that I could offend/annoy people by using it. I have always used it.

iklboo · 20/02/2020 18:15

Where do you stand on HEYa,

Depends. Do you shake it like a Polaroid picture Wink

PawPatrolMakesMeDrink · 20/02/2020 18:31

Oof you’d hate it if you came into my clinical room OP.

I usually greet my patients with ‘Yorrite? I’m Nurse PawPatrol’ in my very ‘Ull accent. I think the last time I pronounced a H at the beginning of a word was around 1992.

SpillTheTea · 20/02/2020 18:34

Seriously?

Booboosweet · 20/02/2020 19:04

Jesus, who gives something like this serious thought. I could not care less how I'm greeted.

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