Yes leavers don't need forgiveness and remainers do not need to offer it.
The remainer who mentioned turning inward and just getting on with their family life. I think that's what will happen more and more.
It's a fracture that even when it seems to be healed, will still be there as people feel they can't trust and don't have anything in common, with a large proportion of the UK population.
It's the same thing, friends and family of the disabled feel when the tories got in again. That no one is listening and that no-one cares. It most be what the homeless feel.
The people who don't care have won via fptp and the people who did care can no longer be bothered to care or allow themselves to care as they are having to turn their focus more inward (so they can get themselves and their family sorted.)
After years of tory government and Brexit, I simply did not trust a lot of the British public. They would rather harm others to simply be the one doing the kicking, instead of getting the kicking. They are happy to vote to make themselves poorer and their own lives harder as long as others have it worse too.
It's horrible. So I won't offer forgiveness and yes leavers do not need my forgiveness or anyone elses. I however will do what I have always done when I find people are lacking, shortsighted and mean. I avoid them, I become insular, I keep myself to myself.
Many people are feeling like this now and it's a natural response, people have spoken about stopping volunteering and going to work but not getting involved beyond the basic, etc. They are disenfranchised and this is far worse than the vitriol on both sides of Brexit, as this will not change in 2 or 5 or 10 years.
This will affect the UK far more as communities are even more fractured but what else can people do, when they no longer feel able to engage and when they feel that there is no point offering anything over and above the bare minimum?