Not to give OH my login details?

[EmmaNumberThree]

OH and I have been together for almost 2 years. We live together and recently set up a joint bank account. I am working this week and he isn't, so he has suggested that he moves all the direct debits across to the new account (they are currently all in my name and coming from my bank account), but in order to do that he needs my login details for all the service providers (virgin etc).

AIBU to not be ok to give him those logins? I'll happily do it myself later in the week but something feels weird about giving him all my logins and passwords etc.

I know someone who let her husband have all her online banking logins and didn’t check up on him. Over the course of a couple of years he spunked all her savings up the wall. She didn’t find out until he died and left his money to someone else.

It's not slut shaming, you nut. Of course you can do what you like - I haven't said otherwise. I still think you have your priorities arse about face though, whether it's my business or not. If we all confined ourselves to the things that were only our direct concern, MN would be very quiet!

Nowhere have I said that giving consent once means that someone always has consent, so not sure where that came from.

I stand by my view that if you don't trust a sexual partner not to empty your bank account, best not to live together.