First night I met my ex I was very drunk - for me I don't tend to get absolutely wrecked anyway - I was up for going back to his, he rejected the idea because he didn't consider I was with it enough to be sure that's what I wanted. THAT is what decent men do.
My brother on several occasions has stopped other men from grabbing bums etc on nights out - that's what decent men do.
A friend of mine upon another friend of his telling a rape "joke" stood up, told the guy he should be ashamed of himself for even knowing the "joke" and said he expected better of the group he was with a few of whom had sniggered at the "joke". The easy thing to do would then to have been to walk away but he refused to make it easy on them. He changed the subject then a few mins later they came back to it but agreeing it was out of order.
We NEED for MEN to challenge other men on this shit - not defending it @AnArrestableOffence
You've come onto this thread trying to appear reasonable and understanding but really you're little better than the likes of Hercules - you STILL think
A it's a woman's problem - no it's a societal one and as the perpetrating group especially a men's society one
B it's remotely acceptable to make the argument that too many women are "easily offended" no we're just sick of this shit
C that girls and women should tolerate "low level" misogyny and rape culture bollocks - how about NO! No more, enough!
Men - Time you got your shit together
STOP making excuses for poor behaviour,
STOP displaying poor behaviour
STOP ignoring it when it's your mates/relatives being sexist shits