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To ask you to tell me how old I look?

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Cyclelover · 18/01/2020 20:32

I was insulted today and told I look much older than I am. Could I ask you to tell me how old you think? Blush

Be kind, but honest

To ask you to tell me how old I look?
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Everytimeiseeher · 19/01/2020 20:26

74NewStreet Grin no I read a few pages then tried to speed skip through but I’ve gave up searching.

TigerOnATrain · 19/01/2020 20:26

@Everytimeiseeher

OP is 42. (So she says.....) Wink

Sagradafamiliar · 19/01/2020 20:27

How arrogant to come on a thread and expect the OP to answer to you cos you can't be arsed to read their thread Grin

MimiLaRue · 19/01/2020 20:29

Patients arrived clean and in a gown so there was no smell, but you could always tell the smokers by their skin

Agree. I worked alongside a plastic surgeon and he always said he could spot a smoker from 50 paces.

I also think Kate Moss looks older than 45. Compare her to Nigella Lawson who is 60. KM has a very weather beaten face- you can tell she's lived hard. It shows.

TigerOnATrain · 19/01/2020 20:31

@AmICrazyorWhat2

Tiger I take your point, but you must've met people whom you thought were years younger than they actually are?

Nope. I have never ever EVER met someone who I thought was YEARS younger than they actually were...

I have had a few occasions where someone was 40-43, and I thought they were in their early to mid 30s at first glance, but when I looked closer, I could see they were in their 40s.

And I have never ever seen anyone who looks more than 7-8 years younger than their actual age. Never. They just don't .... not when you look properly.

Some people have botox and other various anti-ageing procedures, but they rarely make them look younger. Maybe 3-4 years tops. I know a woman who is 53, and she has always looked her age. She recently had a facelift, to try and make herself look younger. But she doesn't look younger, she just looks like a 53 year old woman who has had a facelift.

MaggieAndHopey · 19/01/2020 20:32

well, also, Lawson has had a ton of fillers and botox so that helps.

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 20:33

Plus Lawson will probably have a healthier diet due to her knowledge of food being a chef.

74NewStreet · 19/01/2020 20:36

You think Kate Moss has never had Botox? 🤣

happilybemused · 19/01/2020 20:37

Why the filter if you want an honest response

MimiLaRue · 19/01/2020 20:37

Lawson is 15 years older than KM though- there's a limit to what botox and fillers can do.

Plus, I dont believe KM hasn't had some kind of help. Her entire career is based on her looks

Delatron · 19/01/2020 20:37

I agree with @TigerOnATrain most people, especially when they hit their 40s look roughly their age. It's not just wrinkles that age us. Its loss of collagen (which affects us all) and even bone loss etc.
You can have no wrinkles and still look 50.
Nobody who is 45 looks 20....

Anyway, OP you've had some mean replies. I thought mid-late 40s.

Things that will help: SPF 50 every day. Retinol, vitamin c.
Lasers are amazing for sun damaged skin, they reduce lines and stimulate collagen.

You say you haven't looked after your skin. Nows the time to step it up.
You are very pretty and a few changes (stopping smoking)will really make a difference.

MaggieAndHopey · 19/01/2020 20:38

I don't know, but if she has, it hasn't worked very well! I like Kate Moss and I don't think she cares a bit about looking her age.

Delatron · 19/01/2020 20:38

Oh and Kate Moss recently had lasers and botox. You can really tell but it's good work and helped her skin. She still smokes though

CassandrasCastle · 19/01/2020 20:39

Why is everyone calling her Lawson 🙊

DianaT1969 · 19/01/2020 20:40

53-55 possibly a smoker. Are we close?

MimiLaRue · 19/01/2020 20:40

KM gets away with it to a certain extent due to her amazing bone structure (her whole body hangs off those cheekbones darling!)

But she is a good example of how low body fat/smoking/tanning is very ageing

TigerOnATrain · 19/01/2020 20:41

Nigella Lawson is attractive, and yeah she does look a bit younger than 60. But as a pp said she has had fillers/procedures.

Even with those though - although she looks a bit younger than 60 - she still doesn't look more than 5-8 years younger than her age.

All glossed up and shiny on the telly is all well and good. But when you see her in a candid shot, well........... yep she definitely doesn't look much younger than her age.

To ask you to tell me how old I look?
MimiLaRue · 19/01/2020 20:41

Why is everyone calling her Lawson

.......... because its her name

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 20:43

Lines tell me that KM hasn’t had Botox and even if she did then it’s not permanent

TigerOnATrain · 19/01/2020 20:44

@Delatron

I agree with TigerOnATrain - most people, especially when they hit their 40s look roughly their age. It's not just wrinkles that age us. Its loss of collagen (which affects us all) and even bone loss etc. You can have no wrinkles and still look 50.

Nobody who is 45 looks 20....

Thank you. Smile

And I agree with you too.

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 20:44

KM is one sexy woman with a girlishness about her, she is my female crush if I were to have one.Grin

MimiLaRue · 19/01/2020 20:44

I love the way KM dresses - the rock chick look

74NewStreet · 19/01/2020 20:45

No, the effects of Botox are not permanent? Confused

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 20:45

Of course they’re not permanent, it wears off, I thought everyone knew this

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 20:45

I would love to raid Moss’ wardrobe