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To ask you to tell me how old I look?

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Cyclelover · 18/01/2020 20:32

I was insulted today and told I look much older than I am. Could I ask you to tell me how old you think? Blush

Be kind, but honest

To ask you to tell me how old I look?
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Funnyface1 · 19/01/2020 19:00

Haven't read the full thread. Early 60's?

MimiLaRue · 19/01/2020 19:02

it’s not impossible that people would start thinking this if it was said to them

I guess. Usually its "everyone thinks im 25!!" though, not "I was once asked for ID". But I see what youre saying. It just comes across as a bit delusional though

MimiLaRue · 19/01/2020 19:02

Haven't read the full thread. Early 60's?

OP said 42

SexlessBoulderBelly · 19/01/2020 19:03

I’d say mid 50’s.
If you’re any younger than that.. are you a smoker?

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 19:04

I have had a few people thinking I was younger but then I’ve also had it said that I’ve a youthful personality which in turn can make people think your younger.

I once went into a bookies for change and they wouldn’t give me it because, and I quote I was ‘too short to be over 18’Confused

74NewStreet · 19/01/2020 19:04

Oh, read the bloody thread already.

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 19:05

There are a few threads on MN just now about guess my age and with pics, one in style and beauty and then there’s another one but can’t remember where.

CassandrasCastle · 19/01/2020 19:06

What does 'youthful personality' mean? :)

Watermelontea · 19/01/2020 19:06

People on this thread are absolutely shocking at guessing, either that or very bloody kind.

Funnyface1 · 19/01/2020 19:07

Ok, been reading some thread. No I would not believe you if you said you were 42.

AbsentmindedWoman · 19/01/2020 19:09

This thread is fascinating. Some people seem really angered by it.

I'm terrible at guessing ages, I can't narrow my guess down to a small range because so many variables make such a big difference.

OP you look lovely!

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 19:11

Well one woman was pretty rude to me as me and my friends were in a restaurant (this was 2 years ago) and and we got talking to this group of women at the table next to us and she said to me “what age are you because you seem very young by the way you speak” and I asked her what on earth she meant and she said I spoke about mundane things like an excitable 16 year old and I’ve had a couple of people tell me that I seem ‘youthful’ and they didn’t mean with the way I looked so I guess I can be ‘excitable’, I’m definitely what you would call bubbly!

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 19:11

Not immature either!Smile

Inappropriatefemale · 19/01/2020 19:12

The people that are angered aren’t even the ones who have posted a photo and been told they look older than they are so I don’t understand wtf their problem is!

eminencegrise · 19/01/2020 19:15

42? Even with filters? I was WAY off there. I'm half-Asian but inherited my white mother's pale skin, which I sun damaged so I look ragged but do snigger at 'I look 10-20 years younger' because everyone I've met who truly does never says that.

zeeboo · 19/01/2020 19:16

I'd say 65 but it really is hard to judge when you account for smoking, sun bed use, over use of foundation etc.

YeahWhatevver · 19/01/2020 19:21

OP says she's 42.....somewhere in the first 1/4 of posts

zeeboo · 19/01/2020 19:21

I'm wondering if those saying that the OP looks her age are all in their 20's and 30's?

eminencegrise · 19/01/2020 19:25

zeeboo I'm very close to 50 and thought the OP was in mid-50s. I find filters utterly ridiculous, though.

foodiefil · 19/01/2020 19:28

Over 50 but difficult to say with that awful filter

TellMeWhoTheVilliansAre · 19/01/2020 19:29

I think you look older than 42, OP. I'm 42 and I probably look it. My sister in law is 51, and your photos reminded me very much of her. She's also very slim and was a heavy smoker for about 30 years.

DiegoSaber · 19/01/2020 19:30

I only got halfway through the thread... can't stop laughing that somebody with the username "Almost40AndWeeping" genuinely posted a picture and asked people to guess her age!

user1480880826 · 19/01/2020 19:38

And here is another reason not to smoke. Adds at least 10 years.

CassandrasCastle · 19/01/2020 19:38

@DiegoSaber Could have been an ingenious double bluff Hmm ....

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Teateaandmoretea · 19/01/2020 19:42

I think most people look within at least 5 years of their age, either direction.

^^yep me too. People often think I'm younger than I am but they have placed me as late 30s rather than early 40s. Friends who look older for their age deffo don't look more than 10 years older than me...!