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To have replied to my neighbours anonymous letter?

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RhubarbBikini88 · 17/01/2020 23:55

My neighbour moved in last year and although she doesn’t always say hello (her husband does) we are on reasonable terms, taking parcels in for one another, Christmas cards etc. This afternoon while we were out we were sent an anonymous printed letter addressed to our house number asking us to be more careful with our rubbish as they have had to pick up an advent calendar and a nappy in a bag. I understand that’s not pleasant for them, and we are sorry but it’s been very windy and the council recently swapped our bin for a smaller one which means it gets filled quicker, and our recycling is just in plastic tubs which makes it out of our control when it’s windy as it’s just in boxes!
We have a ring doorbell which records everything outside our house, so we checked to see who posted it and it was our neighbour who lives in the house next door.
I wrote a letter back which said “dear ..., thank you for making us aware of the rubbish situation. We will try to prevent this happening again but if it does please feel free to speak to us in person as although we are not very good at controlling our rubbish, I promise we are friendly people!” And signed it with our name and house number!
Have I been out of order?

OP posts:
finn1020 · 19/01/2020 10:03

I want a Ring doorbell too.

magoria · 19/01/2020 10:13

Geeze I have been outside picking up all sorts of crap lately.

It's not as if my neighbours are deliberately bunging it in my front garden hoping the winds wouldn't blow it away to upset me!

Now if you were deliberately smearing the nappy contents over their car/front door I could understand her being upset Hmm

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