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AIBU to ask what your goals are for 2020?

76 replies

Craftylittlething · 31/12/2019 17:58

I don’t do resolutions but I like to set goals, mine are to get strong and to live better, not just eating healthy but to not put up with crap from people too. What about you?

OP posts:
ssd · 31/12/2019 18:02

To keep going.

princesskatethefirst · 31/12/2019 18:03

To try and stop growing so much
To stop being quite so wasteful

FreedomfromPE · 31/12/2019 18:05

To make it to 2021.

MonnaLIza · 31/12/2019 18:06

To be happy

savethecat · 31/12/2019 18:07

To socialise more and to say yes to invitations etc.

sparkle789 · 31/12/2019 18:07

To start loving and looking after myself.

Unevenbeard · 31/12/2019 18:13

To stop crying and be happy, whatever that may look like

Spied · 31/12/2019 18:20

Stop worrying so much
Stop trying to control everything and everyone-
Let go of perfectionist tendencies
Think positive
Re-start mindfulness
Eat well and exercise
Lose 1stone weight
Stop spending and wasting money. Save.
Holiday abroad this year

MonnaLIza · 31/12/2019 18:42

To get back to running weight/shape

Morgenrot · 31/12/2019 18:50

To give up work

Inliverpool1 · 31/12/2019 18:51

Double my businesses turn over, survive GCSE and A Levels

SugarNyx · 31/12/2019 18:53

Lose weight, get therapy, learn to drive, stop letting my family upset me

Norugratsatall · 31/12/2019 18:58

To exercise more.
To engage in more cultural activities.
To be more patient with my (very trying!) elderly father
To try not to worry about things over which I have no control!

I'm sure there'll be others.

GiveMyHeadPeaceffs · 31/12/2019 19:05

To get the courage to end my relationship before it turns toxic. To help my beautiful ds understand that mum and dad are not better off together.

Medicaltextbook · 31/12/2019 19:08

To lose some weight and get a bit more active
To get a new job if current fixed term contract ends.

aibutohavethisusername · 31/12/2019 19:09

To lose weight

BinkyBaa · 31/12/2019 19:11

Get a job, get better at speaking spanish, learn to drive, take piano lessons.

Moanranger · 31/12/2019 19:11

To lose 10kg
To find a buyer for my business
Now let’s watch this space next New Year’s!

redexpat · 31/12/2019 19:12

Same as 2019.
2 family trips per month
2 dates with dh per month although think i will change that to 1.
Participate in 5 cultural events.

New for 2020 is to eat more veg and go to zumba a bit more regularly. Id like to feel a bit better in myself.

MsPepperPotts · 31/12/2019 19:14

To improve my poor health.
I know I can do it as others have done.
So watch out 2020 here I come! Crown Grin

AuntieMarys · 31/12/2019 19:15

Put myself first which I generally do

Survivingchipandkippee · 31/12/2019 19:16

You’ve listed all mine too!

nrpmum · 31/12/2019 19:16

To run 3 x week
Stop calorie counting
Continue as I am

Catapillarsruletheworld · 31/12/2019 19:18

Loose weight
Save some money (very hard with spend alcoholic DP, I see arguments ahead)!

SlackerMum1 · 31/12/2019 19:22

Turn my usual 5k run into a ‘usual’ 10k... I’m thinking about trying for a half marathon. Get a new job. And lose 10lbs... It’s a permanent quest...
But otherwise feeling good heading into 2020. DD just turned 3 so I feel like I’ve hit a major milestone in putting the hideous (to me at least) baby/toddler years behind me... roll on 20s...