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Settle a disagreement: AIBU to leave this advent candle burning throughout December including when everyone is out or in bed?

285 replies

EasilyDistracted77 · 09/12/2019 06:45

Picture for context, the candle is inside the glass/metal case.

One of us is saying it's perfectly safe and that's what an advent candle is for. The other is saying a flame should never be left unattended, no matter how safe it seems.

Settle a disagreement: AIBU to leave this advent candle burning throughout December including when everyone is out or in bed?
OP posts:
Poptasmagorical · 11/12/2019 17:20

I’m so happy to see so many people supporting op in not leaving it burning. DH must be a complete airhead to have danced through life unaware of the risks, not just to your home and family but also to neighbours and firefighters. Bloody idiot.

CSIblonde · 11/12/2019 17:26

So, so risky OP. It goes against all safety advice. House shared with a Firefighter back in my 20's: 90% of the house fires he went to were down to candles left burning.

redwoodmazza · 11/12/2019 18:34

What's the worst that can happen?
Oh yes - your house could burn down.
DON'T DO IT!!!

Tellmetruth4 · 11/12/2019 18:45

I’ve had a candle glass break before. Not worth the risk.

glennamy · 11/12/2019 23:39

Wow, you really have to ask? You have no common sense whatsoever, let others close to you make the adult decisions!

VestaTilley · 12/12/2019 06:05

Are you crazy?? If you leave it unattended you could burn down your house.

We have an advent candle- we light it in the evenings when we're present and blow it out at bedtime- it usually takes 2 hours to burn down to the next day on the candle- so you stop each day at that point.

RuffleCrow · 12/12/2019 06:20

How does he fight actual fires if candles terrify him @brightonroc ?

thekaiserswife · 12/12/2019 06:28

Of course not, don't be stupid.

DoesntLeftoverTurkeySoupDragOn · 12/12/2019 07:08

How does he fight actual fires if candles terrify him

I imagine that it is the thought of the consequences of candles rather than the actual flame. Obviously.

Squoozie · 12/12/2019 09:53

Some people are either lazy fuckers who can't be arsed to RTFT, or so inflated with their own self-righteous self-importance that they must get their point of view over and don't care that there are further updates from the OP.

RTFT!

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