@fablaura
“I always think people who slate the NHS are the ones who have never been very very ill. When you are near death's door, you see a different side to it”
On the contrary, I think those that fete the nhs have usually had little contact with it, and haven’t experienced serious ill health. A relative of mine thinks the nhs is sacred - she’s never even spent overnight in hospital! Never had an accident bad enough to warrant medical care, never been seriously ill and popped her children out with ease, her kids have similarly enjoyed good health and no serious accidents so far. She has zero understanding of the issues for those needing prolonged or serious emergency support. Whenever any of us that have had issues try to explain the realities to her she shuts down the conversation! She’s now a pensioner and STARTING to deteriorate as everyone who ages does, when she does start needing more care and she can’t afford to go private I think she’s in for a hell of a shock!
Their experience is positive precisely because they haven’t had to deal with the nhs constantly for chronic ill health.
Myself and several loved ones being repeatedly dismissed, stonewalled, misdx, having long term carefully assessed and trialled prescriptions and treatments decided on by specialists/consultants changed on a whim/to save money by gps is what has informed my opinion.
I’ve been managing at least 3 chronic physical conditions and serious mental illness for almost 15 years. 1 of those for over 30 years.
I’ve been “near death” on at least half a dozen occasions, dd (almost 19) thrice already and while I’m grateful for the treatment received at the times of crisis where my life was saved. Some of those situations were BECAUSE We’d not been dx & treated correctly in the first place!! Not just my assessment but that of the medics that provided the life saving treatment. On 1 occasion they were so appalled they reported the gp concerned themselves!
As for respect - respect is earned, it’s not bestowed automatically. I certainly don’t think respect is owed to the several drs & nurses who completely dismissed my CORRECT self dx on several occasions (not just the endo) even to the point of laughing at me and telling me point blank I was wrong.
Not once received an explanation let alone an apology either!
@oliversmumsarmy type 2 does have a genetic predisposition element, type 1 doesn’t always have a genetic cause, certain infections can trigger it and even trauma.
There has to be more PUBLIC accountability.
One gp i had a nightmare with, I've moved around a lot due to being a military dependent for over 30 years and then a few more moves after that, so I was new to the area, when I started to get to know people in the area I learned he had a terrible reputation, numerous complaints against him but because it couldn't be definitively proven his actions were directly harmful he was still practicing! He was literally a liability! But the authorities couldn't get rid!
The standards for dismissal are too high in my opinion and the standards for good practice, good staff too low.