@rockingthelook poor staff definitely make life harder for good staff as well as patients. One of my former colleagues/friends is now a mentor when trainees are on ward I’ve mentioned several times before she is increasingly finding they are unwilling to do “menial” tasks as they don’t think that’s their job, they don’t see the value in spending time with patients and don’t acknowledge the information that can be gained from eg giving a bed bath or taking obs themselves.
And yes she’s also had a number of them expecting to be able to refuse to work weekends/eve/bank holidays which utterly bewilders me - do they think the patients go home?!
@dontdisturbmenow I’m not denying it’s a significant issue but that it’s not the only one or even the main one. Also blaming patients is frankly counterproductive, it may feel right but we know from other “self inflicted” illness that shaming people doesn’t work! Fat shaming is still very much acceptable yet smokers, heavy drinkers and even recreational drug takers are treated more sympathetically. It’s acknowledged that it’s bloody hard not doing something which albeit temporarily makes you feel better and/or is tied in with addiction.
I remember watching (actually at a time when I was still effortlessly very slim myself!) an episode of Oprah when she was discussing her struggles with being overweight, trying to lose weight, being unsuccessful etc and she said something very interesting - if you have a problem with something else that’s negatively affecting your health you can just quit taking/using that thing whatever it is, not easily but you can live without drinking alcohol/smoking/taking drugs but if your “drug” is food everyone has to eat so you can’t go ‘cold turkey’ instead you’re having to deal with your addiction (there’s considerable research now to support addictive qualities in overeating) all day every day. Every mealtime every social occasion...
I am overweight myself but lost considerable weight a few years back via ww, it may be “simple” as in ‘eat less move more’ but it’s not “easy”, anyone who has attended a slimming club will know the meetings don’t merely look at which foods are less calorific and more nutritious but discuss WHY members overeat, ime most members have some kind of trauma at the root of their overeating, sadly all too often being victims of some kind of abuse, not always but often. Also things like having been very poor in childhood and there not being much food available, food being linked by their parents to reward and punishment, recovering from previous eating disorders (personally I think overeating should also be recognised and treated as an eating disorder), even culturally food is tied in to celebration, reward etc our food environment in this country is dreadful, a friend of mine is married to a non Brit and apparently he was shocked upon his first visit to a Uk supermarket by how small the fruit and veg aisle is but how many multiple aisles of unhealthy snacks and drinks there are. In his country of origin he says they rarely snack between meals but meals are big, hearty and healthy. Things we eat on a regular basis are reserved for things like birthday parties.
But also as I said before I’m not convinced unhealthy lifestyle is the whole or even the main cause of type 2 diabetes, given how obese & unhealthy we are as a nation if it were I’d expect higher than a 10% incidence.
I hate the blaming of patients for their health.
Very few health conditions are completely “blameless” in cause. Most cancers, heart disease, stroke, lung disease... are down to unhealthy lifestyles but those patients aren’t blamed in the same way as those with type 2.
@Frumpety nurses became “allowed” to do certain tasks as a way of reducing the pressure on junior Drs, not sure what age you are but when I was training/first working it was a big scandal that junior Drs were working insane hours and being expected to do too much, the effect on patient care (dangerously so in too many instances) and that they were literally dying in a few cases of overwork was why the govt was under pressure to sort it. That too was under a Tory govt. it was PRESENTED as giving nurses more responsibility and recognition for their abilities but the real reason was the outcry against what was happening with junior Drs.
“Another issue is the gateway of the GP system” I’m kinda labouring the point I know but I really hate this aspect of gp care. Most patients know what’s wrong with them. I’d strongly suspected the endo years before I got an official one.
A&e however I think would greatly benefit from better gatekeeping.
But then there’s also the fact that many patients are attending a&e with issues best dealt with in gp surgery because they can’t get appointments! If gps weren’t being gatekeepers to specialists those appointments would be freed up, patients would be more likely to get gp appointment and not end up in a&e either out of frustration or WORSE because the condition has deteriorated to the point they now NEED emergency care
@andysbestadventure I’ve thought for several years my weight is at least partly due to a thyroid issue, but even with a family history of thyroid disease I’m treated like a hypochondriac, occasionally blood has been taken and tested and all I’m told is “it was fine” I’ve asked on numerous occasions for exactly what was tested and the results and been repeatedly stonewalled, I believe because I have mh dx. It’s not my area of expertise but from reading loads online I know the nhs levels considered within an acceptable range are considered differently in other countries. And that it’s not always the right things that are tested for. (Sorry having a fuzzy headed day can’t remember some words/terms)
“Doctors that don’t listen.
Nurses that don’t listen.” TOTALLY agree with this! I have just this week had yet another issue relating to a prescription, in part because the dr I spoke with kept assuming what I was going to say INSTEAD of LISTENING!
Among the best Drs and nurses I’ve met have been the ones that said “what do you think is the problem?”
The Drs and nurses who asked that were the better listeners too.
Alsohuman - a good dr/nurse will listen and be able to explain to a patient why what they think is wrong couldn’t be- instead too many of them are dismissive and even rude. The first time I mentioned the possibility of endo to a dr he literally laughed out loud and told me I was talking complete nonsense