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DH stuck on the M5... help!

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NannaNoodleman · 29/11/2019 17:45

It turns out DH's breakdown cover isn't worth a Mars Bar!

He's broken down on the M4/M5 junction.

They're sending out a recovery truck but he has to tell them where to tow him to which has to be a local garage.

Any recommendations??

I need to get the kids packed into the car to go and pick him up... not quite how any of wanted to spend Friday night.

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NannaNoodleman · 29/11/2019 20:25

It is utter shite that they've left him there so long... what an absolute crap service.

We'll be changing breakdown services very soon.

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NannaNoodleman · 29/11/2019 20:27

@user1497997754 thank you.

As far as I know, they are bringing both DH and the car. They'll drop them at the mechanic in the next village and DH can get the train home from there (unless the driver doesn't mind going an extra 7 miles).

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NannaNoodleman · 29/11/2019 20:28

Kids are now fast asleep... I'm wondering if I can chance a wine or whether to wait until DH steps over the threshold. Don't want to tempt fate!

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user1497997754 · 29/11/2019 20:29

I live in Yatton so not to far if I can help let me know

user1497997754 · 29/11/2019 20:30

Whereabouts do you live

ScreamingValenta · 29/11/2019 20:30

I'm wondering if I can chance a wine or whether to wait until DH steps over the threshold.

I'd wait until they've actually picked him up, and then hit the wine with abandon! Grin

littlemissminor · 29/11/2019 20:31

I have just got home and read this thread, I definitely drove past him too Confused

Sorry OP's DH!! Hope he gets it sorted and isn't there much longer, it's Baltic here! Brew

Pinkypie86 · 29/11/2019 20:32

I hope he gets home fine.. been reading the thread and aghast with some of the responses!!
My DP would drive to the ends of the earth for me and, I'd do the same for him with or without the kids!!

What an evening for you all, have him a kebab waiting for him on arrival and, get that wine down your neck! Cheers :)

Pinkypie86 · 29/11/2019 20:33

Terrible English..
Get him a kebab and get sloshed!!

NannaNoodleman · 29/11/2019 20:35

Thank you @user1497997754 that's really kind. We're down in east devon.

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NannaNoodleman · 29/11/2019 20:36

My poor foil wrapped DH, all ye buggers driving past in ya warm cars Grin

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flouncyfanny · 29/11/2019 20:40

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ScreamingValenta · 29/11/2019 20:40

I've got this weird picture now of random Mumsnetters on the M5 driving past the OP's foil-wrapped DH, waving at him through the window.

retiredand · 29/11/2019 20:41

I'm from the north and I guarantee you there weren't many out and about up here today without a coat! I don't feel the cold much but Christ. He'll have learnt from it, glowing in all the MNers headlights 😂

NannaNoodleman · 29/11/2019 20:41

Oh please give him a toot and a wave! Cheer the poor bugger up!

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user1497997754 · 29/11/2019 20:45

Are they towing him in the car now

NannaNoodleman · 29/11/2019 20:47

They're loading his car onto the truck as we speak YAY!

He said he's frozen, thirsty and hungry... 4 1/2 hours he's been there. At least his shit meeting is a distant memory now!

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ScreamingValenta · 29/11/2019 20:48

Yay! Get that wine cracked open! Wine

SuzieSunshine · 29/11/2019 20:48

LOL to the people who have driven past him!! At least you won't have to start a thread 'My DH came home late covered in tin foil - said he'd broken down on the M5 - I don't believe him. Should I LTB?'. Let us know when the poor man gets home.

user1497997754 · 29/11/2019 20:52

That's good I hope he gets home safe...have a hot bath ready ...it's nice to hear about a wife who obviously really loves her hubby x...

Elpheba · 29/11/2019 20:53

Your poor DH, I would have driven if needed, just like you were prepared to. If the shoe was on the other foot and all that...
Hope he gets nicely defrosted soon and that you can both enjoy some well deserved wine!

Eve · 29/11/2019 20:54

Your poor DH , I once had to wait 5 hours to have a tyre changed following a blow out with a horse box on side of the motorway.

It was heavy rain and after 3 hours my 2 waterproofs give up. When the chap turned up as the breakdown service hadn’t actually called them I was in such a state he put me in his van , give me his coat and hat with heating in full and after 30mins of warming me up followed me the entire way home to make sure I was safe.

The insurance agency changed my breakdown provider the next week!

cannycat20 · 29/11/2019 20:55

Flippin' heck, I hope your hubby is okay now. It's been really cold today here in the normally balmy (ha!) south west, so that can't have been much fun for him. And if the Highways Agency have given him help, on a Friday night on the M5, that means he really has been there longer than you'd expect, even as a lone male driver.

I don't drive much now at all since I mainly work from home, but other household member does, and we always try to make sure we've got one of those little tin foil blankets in the glove box just in case, as well as a bottle of water at least, and while other household members may laugh at me I always like to make sure we've got some crackers and a flask of hot water and coffee with us as well, especially this time of year. And lots of fleece jackets and spare socks and things. And if we're visiting family up north even more things get added. My family still laugh at me for insisting we have a bit of old carpet and a snow shovel and a reflective waistcoat or two various other bits and pieces just in case. They never argue with the chocolate rations though, strangely enough...

And yes, if the recovery service he's with won't do an upgrade, definitely change recovery service.

And ignore all the silly people on here who are obviously so perfect that of course it would never happen to them. My last car lost power on the M5 in the middle lane once for no apparent reason; it's not the nicest place in the world to get stuck! (Traffic was mega busy and it did come on again a few seconds later and then was fine, but all my nine lives flashed before my eyes that night!)

And yes, people were right to point out Avonmouth is actually the closest railway station to Gordano, though in some ways Taunton might have been the better bet as Avonmouth is a bit out of the way still. But anyway, it sounds as if hopefully he's on his way back to you all now. And just think what a story it will make when he's all nice and safe and warm back at home.

I take your point about him being from the north as well - most of the time there's a 5 degree difference between say, Newcastle and Bristol, but it's really chilly at the moment. [Remembers northern parents muttering, "Make sure you take a coat" when I went out. Not that they needed to worry. I always looked like a small plump Eskimo. Even in the summer. Still do, from some angles....]

Seriously, get the wine ready for when he's back with you.

EleanorReally · 29/11/2019 20:55

glad he is being towed, and of course the shit meeting has taken second place in his shit day, always a bonus! Grin

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